Hot and cold on and off ...over?

For 7 years I had a hot and cold relationship. My girlfriend had commitment issues, because of bad experiences. I haven't spken to her in almost a year now(not by choice). and she is seeing someone else. Now I have no intrest in dating or even...

having a "No strings" sexual relationship with anyone else. There are 3 women that would like either with me but sex doesn't feel right to me unless I am in love with the person and I still love Connie. What can I do
Should I pursue the woman I still love or what???

Lay your fears aside and sit down and talk to her. If you love her show that you do, and explain over and over and over that you are there for her.

Women need reinforcement that you love them constantly.