Did people judge you for losing your virginity?

If you lost your virginity at 13,14, or 15 these are for you!

I was wondering if after you lost you virginity if you told anyone?
If so did they jugde you and look at you diffrently?

I lost it at 15 and told my best friend-- who then told her boyfriend and so on. They did judge me (even though they were having sex and had been since she was 13 and I didn't know it and thought that they were still virgins... ) and said that I shouldn't have done it and that it was slutty of me. It really pissed me off, because I had told her not to tell ANYONE, so don't have sex if you are afraid of someone finding out, cause they will!

BTW: They broke up a month later and I am now happily married to the man that I lost it too!

it's spelled "virginity"

haha nice answer tinatodder.

umm why don't you just do what you personally feel like doing. and not worry about what other people will think of you. its your life mann.
and if you care that much. keep it to yourself.

thanks tinatodder and oceanheat.

haha thanks for letting me know I spelt virginity wrong..

Yes, people judge you. Sex is not for kids. Go play dress-up or something.

THANKS HEATHERSHAW you HELPED..
I HOPE I MARRY MY BOYFRIEND WHEN IM OLDER LIKE YOU DID.

Chances are you wouldn't, sorry.

XIIGZAG all I have to say is that there is chances that we wont get married but there is also a percentage that we do..

we have been dating for a year and not only am I close to him im close to his family... his mom, his sister, his grandparent, his cousins!!

I think for my age im doing good.. at least im not a hoe that bangs someone different every weekend..

A year is a long time when you're a teenager.

>>>I think for my age im doing good.

For your age, you should consider yourself doing good if you listen to your parents and live up to their expectations.

Tell your parents and/or your boyfriend's parents that you had sex with your him and see what they think about how well you're doing.

haha... my parent acctually know we have had sexx.
they told me that they rather me have sex with one guy then jump around with lots of guys.
I have a good relationship with my parents and they give me better advise than any of you guys...
they told me they dont support me having sex and I havent done it sience I talked to them..
they still like my boyfriend because he didnt force me to do anythingg.
my dad had a rough time with it at first but he got over it because my boyfriend is a good guy.. he makes strait A's and dosent do drugs...
teens do thingg because you only have one life and I chose to do that and I dont regret it but I have stoped. I've learned from what I did and im actually VERY happy I did because I learned a lot of things!

So you had absolutely no idea your parents wouldn't want you to have sex until they actually told you. Smart girl. Some good relationship with the 'rents you have.

well how old are you anywayss?
you seem to know a lot

oh and I am pretty smart being a 4.0 student and all
and once again I dont regret anythingg!

>>>oh and I am pretty smart being a 4.0 student and all

-sigh-

Why do people always cite their GPA to prove how smart they are. I had a 4.4 GPA in high school and even then I knew I wasn't smart - I just knew how to do my homework and study for a test.

...and obviously spelling doesn't count.

>>>and once again I dont regret anythingg!

Of course. You can't change the past, so you have to convince yourself that you don't regret anythingg.

okay well thanks.. I guess
it dosent even matter because I stopped anyways.
and sience you dont even know the surconstances your comments dont mean crap to me

and haha I do suck at spelling..

yes I did tell some of my close friends and then it kind of got out eventually..but my friends were kind of surprised but they were ok with it. some of the guys my ex told thought that I would now be easy but they quickly found out that wasnt true. majority of people didnt really think anything of it. they respected my choices which I was so glad because I didnt want any of that negativeness