Moving out for my sanity (continued)

thanks so much for answering!!! I want to go to college for the rpn course. they dont make that much. I wont be able to go to school and study

a) because my house is too noisy and people do not care about people trying to sleep or study. I have to...

share a room so there goes that. my sister has no respect for me at all.

b) I dont have enough money. my parents are not helping me pay for my schooling. the only way I could go was to move out and apply for osap. I cant apply while living here because my parents are making too much money. I cant get a bank loan because you have to start paying those back early and I dont need that stress....and

c) I dont feel like I am ready at all to go. I am in a really hard position right now. I cant study at the library because I am very very easily distracted.

my fiancee is the right one for me because he is from a big dysfuncional family too and there is not anyone else on this plannet I know that understands me better than he does. we are so alike. we never have problems..just the normal. typical dissagreement here and there. and even that gets solved instantly we neverget mad and not talk for days at a time. its delt with the same day. he is not just my boyfriend. he is my best friend. something I have never had before.

Dear sam88ca,
My house is too noisy: go somewhere else
I don't have enough money: Get OSAP and move out
I don't have a place to go: Your too distracted at the library? there are booth at every library perhaps you need to want to be focused or see a doctor who can help.
I don't feel ready to go: why not? no one wants to work hard but that's how we improve and advance in life. If you don't want to now you probably won't want to later. So get a job...you won't have a career.
My fiancee is right for me: great, you get along...so you can get along with others then...you choose not to. Is he working? Get a place together and both work hard to make a good life for yourselves.
Does it seem like there are answers to everything...well there is. We get out what we put into things. It's a scary world out there; you can hide and use excuses or you can go out there and prove how strong you are...Make a choice.
Sue...good luck