How to save our relationship?

My boyfriend likes to smoke weed adn it pisses me off because he chooses drugs over me. He will do anything for them we constanly fight because I want him to quit adn he dont want to he says it mellows him out what should I do. Weve been dating for...

seven months and I know this whole issue is going to end our relationship. && I dont want it to.

I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 and half years, and he used to smoke weed, he did it way before I met him, I'll admit I used to smoke it occasionally with him and friends, but after a few months together I thought, enough, I don't want to be in a relationship thats based on me not been myself, I do not do drugs and never have before I met this guy.

I told him about it, he also said it helps him chill out, calms him down, makes him feel good and he just enjoyed the floaty feeling.
I told him that he either changes it or we brake up, I hate asking people to change themselves, I wasnt asking him to change his personality I just hated it because I always saw him high, the only time I sae him sobar was when he woke up, and that'd soon change after an hour or so.

we drifted apart, but soon came back together, he still smoked it for a while, but not around me, I knew he still did it but it felt better not to be around it, it felt easier to ignore. eventually he stopped altogether, when it finally dawned on him how much he was hurting me by smoking it.

5 years down the line he hasn't touched it, people say how do I know but I trust him, and I just know, plus he knows it would be the end for us after a long time together for lying to me all along.
tell him how you feel, if he loves you drugs won't compare.
erin
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Suck it up or dump him... when under drugs you can't think correctly.

Drugs will kill anyone, and any relationship.

You can do 1 of 3 things.

1. Accept his habit and ignore the fact that he can go to jail for it.

2. Leave him before you dwell on this subject any longer thus hurting yourself.

3. Try using force to get him to stop, not physical, but mental force, as in, why do you have to smoke weed? Why can't you be happy around me without smoking weed? If I don't mellow you out, and weed does, then it's over | Would you choose me, or all the weed you could smoke, what would it be, and be careful over the answer, because both of them, will make you lose something.

If you decide to use that last statement - If he says You, then tell him to stop, or it's over. If he choices weed, well, leave him. If he hesitates, walk away from him without saying a word and wait for him to call you.

When it comes to drugs you can't have sympathy for someone, otherwise they will continue doing whatever it is that they are doing. It's one of the worst habits a human can have, I wish you the best of luck.

I dont care what your boyfriend tells you- he wont quit smoking pot. and anytime he says he is going to you can bank on it being a lie. and he will choose pot over you. thats just how it is. if I were you I would just give up on making him choose because it isnt going to turn out how you want it to.