Should I give him my virginity?

Asked by fau 9 months ago, 16 answers.

my boyfriend says he loves me and I really do love him but im still a virgin, im only 13 and want to keep my virginity but he says if I really love him I will do it... I dont know what to do Please give me advice...

Answered by minix3 on Feb 23, 2008, 02:24PM
| 30 answers.

well if you dont want to do it
dont.

tell him that you are not the wrong one he is
your love is not the questionable one his is
and if he loved you he wouldnt force you to screw him to prove it

| 2 of 2 thought this was helpful

Answered by funadvice on Feb 23, 2008, 02:31PM
| 42399 answers.

you should bang him till he bleeds.I did it when I was 10

| 1 of 2 thought this was helpful

Answered by twinkiesrgross on Feb 23, 2008, 03:12PM
| 76 answers.

I don't think you should ,13 is way too young and it sounds to me like all he wants is the deed. If you are not ready you shouldn't and let him know that.
It's wrong of him to push it on you if you are not comfortable with the idea, plus if there is no protection you have a high chance of pregnancy because you are both young and fertile.
It's not enjoyable for a female at that age anyways.

| 2 of 2 thought this was helpful

Answered by angelfire2708 on Feb 23, 2008, 04:13PM
| 5959 answers.

Here is some info to seriously consider>

Sex vs. Love:
"If you love me, you'll have sex with me"
"I love you, I just want to show you how I feel"
"If we love each other, theres nothing wrong with it"

At one time or another, most girls here some version of those same lines, but guess what? None of them mean you have to have sex with someone...even if your truly, madly, deeply in love with that person! Any line, or any pressure for you to become sexually involved, is NOT an expression of love.

SEX PROVES NOTHING, and sex is NOT a test of love for, or devotion to your partner.

Any guy who truly cares about you, would NEVER push you into sex. This boy clearly doesnt like you, care about you, nor does he respect your feelings. He isnt treating you like a person, he only sees you as an object.

The right time to have sex, is when you are sure that this is the person you will be spending the rest of your life with, and you can handle the consequences of your intimacy!

| 2 of 2 thought this was helpful

Answered by loco805 on Feb 23, 2008, 04:15PM
| 60 answers.

don't do it, a guy your age will tell you anything to get some. If he says he loves you don't belive him, let him show you, if he really loves you he won't leave you just for not having sex.

Answered by troubledworries on Feb 23, 2008, 05:50PM
| 118 answers.

well hes actually 17

Answered by troubledworries on Feb 23, 2008, 05:50PM
| 118 answers.

well hes actually 17

Answered by bimjob on Feb 23, 2008, 06:18PM
| 1977 answers.

His age changes things. He is pure SCUM. In many states he is also a sexual preditor and a child molester (based on your ages). TELL YOUR PARENTS.

He is only trying to get in your pants, and cares NOTHING about you. He is saying anything he can to get you in bed. Run from him and never look back.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Feb 23, 2008, 06:56PM
| 5959 answers.

This is usually the reason older boys date younger girls...becasue they are vulnerable, and very naive! Do NOT believe what he is telling you. He is saying he loves you, so he can have his way with you. Thats probably why he cant get a girl his own age, they are on to him.

Answered by moeffurr on Feb 23, 2008, 07:37PM
| 35 answers.

Hey you.
I hate how guys pull that if you love me stuff.
Because, if he loves you, he would be willing to wait till you're ready, and if he doesn't want to wait, than he's obviously not worth having your first with.

Answered by loaiza13 on Feb 23, 2008, 08:01PM
| 80 answers.

KEEP your VIRGINITY your JUST 13 you HAVE A LOOONG WAY TO GO THINK what WOULD HAPPEN IF you GET PREGNAT? WHATS going TO HAPPEN JUST 4 A WHILE OF PLEASURE U?, IF HE LOVED YOU HE SHOULDNT TELL you that PRESSURING you TO HAVE SEX PLUS SINCE your 13 you STILL HAVE A LOT OF THINGS TO DO GUYS TO DATE I WOULD WAIT UNTIL your SURE because IF your asking that MEANS your NOT and I AGREE GUYS WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET IN2 your PANTS and IF you DECIDE AFTER EVERYTHING TO DO IT USE PROTECTION BUT I WOULDNT RECCOMEND you TO DO IT BUT YEA

Answered by fau on Feb 23, 2008, 08:05PM
| 3946 answers.

Well I dont think you should. At 13 you are to young to actually understand the importance of your virginity. You can only give it to one person. And I doubt that you really love him, and that it will last very long. And Im almost sure that one day you will meet someone who you will truely love and will want to give that person that very intimate moment with one person. And also physcologically women become extremely attachted to that person they loose it too. And it hurts so bad when its over. And if you were ready for this, then you wouldnt be second guessing yourself as you are right now. So please think about it this.

Answered by fau on Feb 23, 2008, 08:05PM
| 3946 answers.

Well I dont think you should. At 13 you are to young to actually understand the importance of your virginity. You can only give it to one person. And I doubt that you really love him, and that it will last very long. And Im almost sure that one day you will meet someone who you will truely love and will want to give that person that very intimate moment with one person. And also physcologically women become extremely attachted to that person they loose it too. And it hurts so bad when its over. And if you were ready for this, then you wouldnt be second guessing yourself as you are right now. So please think about it this.

Answered by miss_michelle on Feb 24, 2008, 01:53PM
| 73 answers.

You are young for that plus theres plenty of time for sex-your only 13...you deserve better

Answered by funadvice on Feb 26, 2008, 02:15PM
| 42399 answers.

waht the??? your only 13...tell him to back of and leave you alone... thers always a rising problem whenever and guy starts of his statement by saying "IF you really LOVED ME then you would..." Thats when you should know that he dosent care about what you think and that hes a self centered jerk lol

Answered by shabirkhan on Feb 28, 2008, 06:26AM
| 22 answers.

No never, please this is your time of sensations & feelings and if you once lost your verginity , you will loss all your wealth for whole life,,, please convience him to wait tell true marraige ,, always remember a man / boy can not be truted truly ,, as most of them runs for sex & nothing else... please never do loss your true wealth except your real man who has the right to take your verginity,,, you will be the successful girl if you kept safe your verginity till your real true husband please,,, otherwise as you like ,,, you are freee to follow your plans

Back to top

Popular questions related to Should I give him my virginity?