Help no period yet and am 13

Asked by horsegirl over 2 years ago, 107 answers.

Hi I am Thirteen and I have not gotten my period yet and feel really left out and I've been told not to worry I'll get it!!! And that when I get it I won't want it!!But my best friend got her's when she was ten!!!wahahahahahhah!!!I FEEL REALLY LEFT...

OUT!!!

PLEASE HELP
ALSO WHAT SHOULD I LOOK FOR ???

Answered by kaybug26 on Jan 10, 2007, 03:18AM
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hold tight hunny! it will come when it comes. trust me I was the same way before I started mine and I wanted to start so bad. I started when I was 14 then I cried and wanted it to go away. don't worry bout it it'll come but for now enjoy that you don't have it every month. your not being left out your being blessed child. just wait till you start then you'll see

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Answered by honey_bunny on Mar 19, 2006, 10:23AM

Hi, My name is Cheyenne. I want to let you to know there is no reason to be left out!
I would rather have no period.They are painful and real nasty. You have to take a shower just about twice a day so you dont stink and you have to brush your teth more than three times a day cause you get super bad breath on your period.
Stuff you should look for before you start your period is really bad cramps below your period, mood swings, eating really super picky, and not wanting to be around anyone!Just to let you know its perfectly normal that you havent started your period yet, my mom didnt start till she was 17.
yours trully,
Mell. (ps I have 3 horses a quarter, spotted saddle bred and a foxtrotter)

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Answered by tequila09 on Mar 22, 2006, 09:47PM
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Hahaha first of all I don't mean to laugh but there is no real reason to be freaking out. I know EXACTLY how you feel. When I was your age I hadn't had my period and I was flipping out beause everyone had gotten their's before me. I actually wanted it (haha wow..) but once you get it, seriously you'll wish you'de had the extra years without it. Umm some girls get like a bit of white discahgre before their period, obviously mood swings and cramps... Please don't fret though you'll get it. and although it can be between 8-20 it is probably better to talk to a doctor if you're older than 26 and haven't had any signs.
Your period won't be regullar at first either so don't worry about that... it can last anywhere fro 1-7 days for the first bit and sometimes miss a month or too. Don't worry you'll get yours in due time
PS: most of the time it's girls who are more active who get theirs later. not always, but that's what I've been told.

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Answered by jenjen93 on Jul 17, 2006, 05:58PM
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don't be sad you get it soon my mom got her's when she was 16

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Answered by xchelsey on Jul 17, 2006, 08:33PM
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I got my period late too. when I was 14. so dont worryy.. I was the last one out of all myfriends and I hated it. I know how you feel but wow if I could rewind time id be bragging that I didnt have mine. its not fun, you dont want it haha. theres nothing really to look for.. when you see blood then you have it haha. you may get cramps too. I know I got cramps once a month for like 3 months before I actually got the blood part. just be patient sweety, your normal.

Answered by puke_a_buteet on Aug 19, 2006, 11:22PM

hey, I saw your question. im 14, and I havent gotten my period yet either. I was on google looking 4 info, because I wanted mine. but now, I realized something... everybody keeps saying they wish they didnt have their periods, and I was thinking, whatever, lucky! but now I realize, I will have my period 4 a very long time. once I get it, theres no turning back! so im just going to sit back and enjoy this time. yes, im probably the last of my friends, so SIT BACK AND ENJOY!

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Answered by filletofspam on Mar 02, 2007, 05:01PM
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The age of menarchy (first period) has been falling over the years. At one time 17 was the average. In Japan the average was 17.5 at one time but it is falling as well.

Nobody is really sure why the age has been falling over the last century. Some think it is polutants that mimic human harmones. Others think it is our rich diet causing girls to mature more quickly.

In any case, there is no reason to worry if you start a year or two later than your friends since in years past girls started even later.

Another interesting thing is that average male sperm count is half what it was 70 years ago. Another health mystery.

Answered by nikki_forever200789 on Jun 13, 2007, 04:02PM
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ok, you will get it soon. everybody matures differently, and some get it later than others. You should be happy, growing up and going through puberty is NOTHING to be happy about. It hurts, it's just plain gross, something may happen like you leak which is real embarressing. So enjoy being free, be careful what you wish for.

Answered by imtryingtohelpyou on Jun 20, 2007, 01:34PM

Just be happy you don't have yours, I had mine when I was 13, so don't worry! I can totally relate to how you're feeling!

Answered by john4362 on Jul 03, 2007, 04:27PM
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Who ever told you not to worry about it was right. I had four sister's and they where all different. You could make an appointment with a gynecologist before long, after all we all need check ups, and you can talk to your Doc.

Answered by zabe on Jul 05, 2007, 01:05PM

I know how you feel. I also am 13, and have only had mine once, (around 6/2) and it didn't happen this month. what I'm expecting: irregularity. my two best friends had theirs not long ago, and I felt like they where leaving me out. 10 seems a little young to me, but theres a long stretch of years you could first get yours. be patient, and you'll get it soon enough. it too big a trouble to want, so be happy you don't have it..
I'll stop rambling on now, but I hope I helped in 1 way or another.

Answered by alphlyka on Jul 20, 2007, 11:31PM
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You know what? My two best friends didn't get theirs until they were 16 and 15. All girls develop at different paces - it's completely natural. Anyway, periods suck. Mine were really heavy all through highschool - I'd go through a super tampon in about an hour. I'd also occasionally get really bad cramps, and I'd feel so yucky I'd just go hang out in the bath, because whenever I'd get out I'd start feeling greasy again. You get used to it, but they really are a nuisance. Anyway, I didn't get my period till 14, so you're not alone.

Answered by funadvice on Jul 22, 2007, 07:03PM
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TRUST ME YOUR LUCKY YOU DONT HAVE IT YET!! it sucks so f**ing much when you get it because you get cramps and you get cranky its not fun
dont worry if you dont have it yet its okay

and what you should look for is if your getting a lot of cramps you might be getting it maybe not that day but within the next few

ps. I got mine when I was 9 and my friend got hers when she was 14 so its okay

Answered by dancing_gurl_120 on Jul 30, 2007, 07:59AM
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Its ok to be worried. You will get it. I'm 14 and I got mine last year. same age as you. Believe me its not fun. You have cramps, bad breathe, picky eating, being tired. When I first started my period I didnt eat for a day I had bad cramps, brushed my teethe five times a day and stayed in my room just to sleep. its sucks so bad. Look for white discharge that looks kinda like snot in your underwear, cramp, bad breathe. trust me you wont like it after you get it.

Answered by whoneedsahug on Aug 01, 2007, 09:55AM
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Hi im 15 and I havn't gotten mine. And I don't want it cause I've talk to my girl friends about it and they all say I'm very lucky. I might get it soon but I've talked to my mother and lisened in s*x ed classes. You should have pubic hair, armpit hair, acne, brest starting to grow, and lastly vaginal discharge (white clear substance) and some girls have the dicharge for a year until they have there period. this all takes about 2 years before you have your period.

Answered by squiddles343 on Aug 28, 2007, 09:03AM
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hey I am 15 and I got mine just 2 days ago. I am really small so I don't have any cramps. but I told my mom right after it happened and she drove all the way from Sherman Tx just to go to walmart with me to buy some tampons. if you are small, then you have nothing to worry about. But when you get it, don't be afraid to tell your mom or dad. I have a fear of talking about bodily functions, and I was scared at first to tell my mom, but when I did realized everything was alright. I did have cramps right after I got my period, but Midol really helps. if you get tired, just drink some cold sweet tea and take a 30 min. nap, that what I did and I am fine. I am on the varsity swim team in Huston, so if I can swim with a period, you can do anything. but once you have it, there is no going back just chill out and let you body catch up with your wantings.

Answered by littlebex on Sep 09, 2007, 08:59AM
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hi I have the same problem I am 13 and havent started I get woried but sometimes I think im lucky because ma m8s say its horrible so dont be scard your not the onlly one xxx

Answered by farah on Sep 30, 2007, 12:22PM
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Don't worry. I got mine when I was 10 too. My best friend is thirteen too and she hasn't got it. Somtimes you don't get it until 17 eaven.Relax!!

Answered by lilmissdorkess44 on Oct 04, 2007, 01:02PM
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the only thing you have is time...and your very lucky..I got mine when I was 12! while my friends mother didnt get hers until she was almost 17!!!
A period seems cool...but dont be too excited..

Answered by mattie101 on Oct 21, 2007, 05:15PM
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Listen to everyone.. dont freak ouy.. you really dont want one.. you get stomach pain and the bleeding can be heavy sometimes and it's so nasty and embarrasing when you first get your period but dont realize it til it leaks through that's happened to a lot of girls. You really dont want one I got mine when I was 10!!! I'm 15 now and I hate periods.

Answered by wudafxup1213 on Oct 21, 2007, 06:09PM
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HAHAHA; ENJOY NOT GETTiN iT WHiLE YU CAN..I WANTED MiNE TOO..iT iS SUCH A B!TCH

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