Should I even be trying to get over him?

I was really into this & couldn't get over hem 4 5mnths den I startd tlkin 2 dis other guy (I new 4 1 month)I really like & he likes me 2.he got my mind completley off the other guy.& my "bff" new evthing I had been thru w/both of dem & she asked me 4 da...

new guys number so I gave it 2 her trusting her & I got a "gut feeling"

& acouple days I was w/hem found out ma "bff" & hem were hooking up while me&hem were hooking up.I told her I didn't want 2 tlk o b friends w/her & she sayd whtever bye & just kept tryna call him 2 his phne while I was w/him.

I couldn't stop crying @ his house & he sayd sorry & dedicated me dis very cute love song that says "im tired of fighting I just want you 2 b my shawty" & told me he was going 2 stop tlkin 2 her.so I forgave him..that same day I came home & that night I found out he was with her again..

I don't know wht 2do I really
Like hem a lot & I've tlkd 2 hem already & he still kept tlkin 2 her. I told hem exactly how I felt.

his friend told me he wasn't going 2 stop tlkin 2 my friend.

Wht do I do?

How can I get over him?

Should I even b trying 2 get over hem?..

HELP ME PLEASE!!

He's a t*sspot, sorry, JUST GET OVER HIM, he's a tard if he's going to treat you that way

loves

yeah I agree with waht abcde says..I think your wanting to be with him etc is not good for you...it'll hurt you and continue to hurt you..so just get over him somehow but definitly

Forget about them both. Erase them from your phone, email, everything and just forget. That's dirty and wrong, what they're doing to you and if you try to get him back or continue talking to him, it's only going to hurt you more. You have other friends right? Hang out with them, just get over the other two.

Are you forgetting yet? Well do it! Haha.
Take care!

You should stop trying to see him and start trying to get over him. If he is going to treat you that way then he doesnt deserve you. There are more fish in the sea and you should try to find someone else. You should try to get over him no matter how hard it might be. Just remember that if someone is going to treat you that way then they are never going to change even if they say they are. Good luck.

Hi, thankyou for your answer to my question... in answer to yours, 'should I even be trying to get over him?' Yes, although this will be difficult. He sounds like a typical man and you should cut him out of your life as much as is possible...
You're too young for this sort of thing, and I know that can sound patronising but I realised it recently and we're too young to be dealing with love, it's a strong, unavoidable and at times, painful emotion, it is a much better idea to enjoy yourself.
As for your friend.. If she has been a true friend up until this problem, forgive her. You obviously know how she feels, you've both fallen for the same guy and it so happens that shes had the chance, wouldn't you jump at the chance if you got it? Don't be jelous, hes obviously not a very nice guy, but at the end of the day no boy is worth loosing your friend over.
Take some time out of love for a while, at the moment I'm sure you have better and more important things to do, like school and FRIENDS! It's not worth it!
X

Thanks for answering my question as well!
Yes, girl forget about him, I know it is easier said then done but do it now. He will keep trying to come around you if you let him. You have to put a stop to it now or you will be even more hurt in the end!
Good luck sweetie

babe defo get over him, he aint worth the pain ( neither of themm ! xxx)

THNX EV1 4 HELPING ME S0 I TH0UGHT I LET you GUYSZ NO..I STILL HVBENT G0T OVER HEM..I ACTUALY STARTD TLKIN 2 HEM AGAIN BUT YESTURDAY WAS DA 4RTH 0F JULY & HE WAS W/HER AGAIN UGH

I CALLD HIS FRIEND that TELS ME EVTHING & HE told ME that SHE WAS W/HEM @ HIS H0USE 4 ALM0ST A WHOLE WK & ONE TIME HE WENT 0VER DERE & DEY TOOK A SHOWER TOGETHER & that MY EX TOLD HEM HE F*CKD HER & IT WAS BOMB..& SHE'S BARLEY 14!!!& 0N TOP OF that SHE'S ONLY NOWN HEM 4 ALM0ST 2 WKSZ.

MY FRIENDS&FAMILY TEL ME HE'S 0NLY USING HER 4 SEX because HE NOS HE W0NT GET that 4RM ME (IM A VIRGIN) BUT I H0NESTLY don't NO..HE MEANT A LOT 2 ME..

WHTS WR0NG W.ME? WHY CNT I GET 0VER HEM?

UGH.

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