Guy I love wants an abortion

see this guy im with I love him but we found out I was pregnant and now he says if I dont get an abortion he will not want to be with me how can I tell him every thing will be ok I have tried everything I could think of

Face it, hes probley not going to change his mind. Which is really sad because this same thing just happened to one of my friends. He is not a real man, if hes trying to force you to do something against your will, you shouldn't be with him. He should have thought about that before knocking you up...

I agree that he is not a real man at all, a real man knows real love and he does not love you if he is that selfish and he isn't thinking about what an abortion will do to your body and the baby. He's a daddy and your a mommy, and it's too late to go back. An abortion isn't fixing a mistake, its A MAJOR SURGERY, AND NOT ONLY WILL YOUR BODY TAKE A LONG TIME TO HEAL FROM IT, SO WILL YOUR HEART. or you might even never heal from it, believe me, I know. abortions don't solve anything, they just make it worse, trust me. There are a lot of support programs available now, for financial and health support for you and your baby, you can get through this, I admire that you get the chance to make the right desicion, it's not to late for you yet. You can't regret the abortion yet. and honestly either after the abortion he'll leave any way, or you just will be so disgusted with him that you'll leave him.

IF HE IS FORCING YOU TO GET A ABORTION I AGREE WITH THE OTHERS. PLUS AN ABORTION IS TAKING SOMEONES LIFE AND THATS NOT RIGHT YOU TWO SHOULD OF THOUGHT OF THAT BEFORE HAVING S*X. AT LEAST USE A CONDOM. ~Danielle~

If that goes against your beliefs and he knows thats important to you, then he is not worth it. Put your baby first-it is a part of you.

I'm in the same situation.

It hurts. I don't know what to do either.
I'm 14. and found out yesterday.
my the 'father' is saying the samething to me.