Help! am I a user or a loser?

Amy,

wow... this is probly the most complicated thing ever but here goes. Ok I am going out with guy #1 for 8 months. I really like him and I may love him. my best guy friend is like my soul mate. There is so much intense attraction between us...

its unreal. guy #2 and I know how much we want to go out but we can't b\c that would be cheating on guy#1 and b\c we dont want to let go of our friendship and b\c I know this is insane but I cud see us actually spending the rest of our lives together... and we talk about I all the time. I am falling In love with guy #2, which is a whole lot different from love. I told my best girlfriend about this(we have been friends for forever) and she says I need to dump guy #1. I can't because I love spending time with him and he is so much fun. I kind of think that high school is um not that like serious and that I love going out with guy#1 and hanging out and being with him. She says hes falling in love with me and that I am leading him on. She has made me feel like a total b*tch. Everytime I even talk to guy #2 I feel like I am cheating on guy #1. it feels terrible. I cannot ignore this thing with guy #2 but I dont want to give up the fun of guy #1. Nothing anytime soon is going to happen with guy #2 b\c we dont want to ruin anything. should I just let my girlfriend make me feel this way and dump guy#1 and be miserable? Should I let something happen with guy#2? wow
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user b*tch

wow lol!right first of all you have to be true to urself what is your heart telln u?not your mind but your heart!dont just ruin sumthng special,dont let your friend chose for u!but your friend is right you have to chose one of thm!because sooner or later the guys will find out and you will end up losing both of them!your not a b*tch your normal.go easy on urself and let your heart decide!look deep inside your heart! luv suzy xXx good luck let me know if this advice is helpful to u

well maybe you shuld just look deep inside your heart and think to yourself is guy#1 worth it or guy#2 just try to find the one who made you happier the one you want to be with more then once you find it its up to you to make that decsion.

Good Luck!!!

who do you love more guy#1 or guy #2 trust your heart on this one

sounds to me like guy #2 is the way to go. I'm in somewhat of the same situation. Its crazy how something that feels so good, can be so wrong. Your only wasting your time if you stay with #1