Blood the first time?

if you have sex for the first time do you usally bleed

Yes but not always. The bleeding is caused by a thin skin (the hymen)in the vagina that has been torn because of penetration. It can also have been torn prior to sex and therefore not bleed.

Yeah zorbot is right I had my first time last week and I thought that I was going to bleed but I didnt. so I don't know, I think its differnt with eveveryone

probably the first 5 times I bled. I think its different 4 every girl. like some say it doesn't very bad at all but 4 me it was VERY painful.

same happened to the chic on top of me..I bled..

Why would you give in to someone who doesnt have one ounce of respect for you? Hes not thinking of your feelings, only his own, and thats being selfish! I think if you decide to follow through on letting him have his way with you, you will regret it one day, because I guarantee you, he isnt going to stay with you forever. Having sex will doesnt NOT keep someone binded to you!