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How do I deal with boyfriend pressuring me for sex?

I love horses Asked by danielle101 8 months ago, 8 answers.

ok my b/f keeps talking about s*x and I mean I'm only 13 and I think that is way way to young to do it but I really like him I don't want to break up with but he keeps asking

Answered by alexis1623 on Mar 18, 2008, 01:41PM
| 246 answers.

If you feel uncomfortable b/c he keeps asking about it and I'm pretty sure he want to have sex, just tell him NO and for him to quite asking you. If he still continues, I think the best thing will be for you to break up with him. I'm glad you realize that having sex at 13 is too young. Not many 13 years old think the way you do.
Hope my advice helps
Good Luck
=)

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Answered by foshizzlemanizzle on Mar 18, 2008, 01:44PM
| 1043 answers.

sorry to say this but I think he's just using you...
I'd kick him in the balls and run !

Answered by piker187 on Mar 18, 2008, 01:50PM
| 1090 answers.

your a smart girl. You definatley shouldn't be having sex at 13, and at least you know that. And your boyfriend shouldn't be pressuring you into sex. Since your 13 I bet he's immature as hell, don't give in. When he's talking like that he's not thinking about you at all, he's thinking about himself.

Answered by hxcbbygrl69 on Mar 18, 2008, 01:51PM
| 429 answers.

If he is really there for you he will wait, if he leaves because of that let him! You don't need someone who is going to presure you into something your not ready to do! Just think of what could happen. What is he has an STD? You will get it. What if he has AIDS? You will get it. What if you have sex with a condom and it breaks? CHance of pregnancy. What if you do get pregnant? He could leave. Just wait. 13 is to young, but its your life. I'm just giving my advice. You are very smart and I give you all props for realizing 13 is to young for sex! You have a good mind, so you should know what to do.

Answered by tinatodder4 on Mar 18, 2008, 01:51PM
| 2338 answers.

^^^ so true. he's probably using you. if he loved you he would wait. tell him to gain some self-restraint and f*ck off. having sex with him is not going to keep him around, or get him to love you. if he really liked you he would respect you and your wishes. dump him, pigs don't make good boyfriends.

Answered by randyo on Mar 18, 2008, 02:09PM
| 711 answers.

If he would break up with you over sex, then break up with him because he doesn't love you. He can't reall ylove you if he isn't willing to wait as long as you want. Dump him. he isn't worth it and you ca do better.
And don't lt anyone pressure you into doing ANYTHING you don;t want or aren't read to do.

Answered by sillist1s on Mar 18, 2008, 02:54PM
| 1186 answers.

Just tell him you're not ready and ask him to wait. If he really likes or loves you enough, then he'd be more than happy to wait. If he breaks up with you because you don't want to, then don't feel bad, you can find a WAY better guy.

Answered by superfresh on Mar 18, 2008, 04:42PM
| 1444 answers.

TELL HIM! there is no better way than telling him you do not want it, and you do not think it is right for him to be pressuring you into something you dont want, also, tell him, that if he really loved you, he would respect your decisions, let him go.. if he doesnt stop. and if he does than just continue regularly with everyday life, and remeber, he is not the only boy out there, remind him, he can be replaced. good luck. :]

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