Heart broken/ want my x-girlfriend back

Asked by wantherback over 2 years ago, 4 answers.

I dated my X for six month. Sparks flew for both of us from the first date and we spent as much time together as possible. Although I had strong feelings for her, I wasn't quite sure she was the one at the time. Now, I know without a doubt. She used to...

ask me to marry her a couple times per week. We even looked at promise rings and engagement rings. Long story short, I slept with my prior girlfriend on two seperate occassions. first time was within the first week of knowing my X, 2nd time was after a break up in about the third month. Both times we weren't an official couple, but I told her about it and she dumped me. She tells me to move on, but she called me drunk last night and we hooked up. She tells me she hates me, but she also said she still loves me too. What can I do to win her back?

Answered by nikole on Sep 16, 2006, 05:56PM
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well my bf did the same to me but got mad when i just dated someone. It hard to imagine him doing something special with someone else but i try to move past it. I love him. if she loves you then i think she is still just upset. express how you feel about her as often as possible. Let her know and show her by doing special things for her. don't let it slip away.

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Answered by angelfire2708 on Sep 16, 2006, 12:53PM
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I went through something similar to your story. Telling her was the right thing to do. I commend you on your honesty, but sometimes it can work against you! To me, i' rather here the truth no matter how much it hurts. She couldnt get past the fact that you slept with your prior ex, while you were with her. (even though you werent bf/gf) Its just not a good feeling when you break up, and someone ends up falling back on an ex so soon after.
People generally speak the truth when they are drunk, and i went through the same feelings with my ex. I hated him, but yet i still loved him. If she can work through getting past what you did with your ex (or if she even wants to) that would be a start, but if she cant, i dont think theres much hope. Either way, it hurts. I think if i were you, i would try and give her some time. If she truly loved you, she'll come back to you!! Good Luck!

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Answered by balamuk on Oct 19, 2006, 08:42PM
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This is the type of questions that I prefer, because everybody has been through this, so good advice is really welcome in this case.
6 months and talking about marriage so often - weird!!!!
Ok I think you should win her back, BUT!!!! she is a little exaggerating in her behaviour. Either that, or very passionate, or rather both together! Anyway, I think this girls deserves your attention.
The good thing is that you don't have to do anything to get her back. If you really want to speed things a little (but be careful), call her and tell her you would like to see her sometimes, get some flowers and tell her you are sorry but you had to tell her the truth, but only when you see her, not on the phone. Quite easy and classical, hum? happy Let me know how it goes please, this is a nice story happy

Answered by jies on Mar 10, 2008, 07:11PM

I leave my x boyfriend for another man but I realize late that I still love my x but he already has a girlfriend. my x told me he still love me but he doesnt want his present girlfriend be hurt.. I understand why he is angry its my fault. what will I do I still love him. should I try to win him back?

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