He was like my brother

Okay so I met this guy freshmen yr and now we are going to be seniors
We became so close and were always together
If you saw him then you saw me
We called eachother best friends
I was his little sister and he was my big brother
I thought that we would be friends for the rest of our lives
I no it sounds wierd but I seriously did
We went through everything together
Until this summer he met a girl that I dont get along with. He started putting her first so to him I became a whatever
This wasnt normal because I was always put before every other girl.
But not this time
He just kept choosing her
We started to drift apart so I started hanging out with all these other guys that go to a different school, I found out that he doesnt like them.
He told me not to hang out with them,he told me that he wouldnt talk to me again if I kept hangin out with the boys, I didnt listen and kept hanging out with them.
I didnt think he was serious but he was
Now he wont talk to me. I've called him, texted him, messaged him on myspace:he read it but didnt respond, and even went over to his house to confront him about it
But nothing he said he never wants to talk to me or see me ever again
When he told me that it really hurt !!
But how is he gunna tell me not to hang out with people he doesnt like when he hangs out with a girl I hate?

What do I do
Im so lost and confused !
Sorry I just completely vented out
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you should go over to his house and confront him about how you feel and what he put you through and just discuss what you guys should do.

I know its hard when he wont answer a call or e-mail, how bout writing a note? just say why and be honest (but dont say you hate her!) say how you miss being best friends and you feel like he's not got time for you, just say you were hanging round with them guys because you were lonley. hope this helps, if not ignore

you need to talk it out with him
tell him that your sorry for what happend with the guys
tell him that since he didnt hang out with you as much you needed other people to hang out with also
you need to tell him that HE'S your bff not those other guys

I say don't worry about him. You guys enjoyed each other because you were young, it's time to mature. Don't be afraid to be without him. You can't control who he hangs out with and he can't control who you hang out with. Dont get caught in conforming to a man, you'll be like one of those ladies on 'Maury' trying to get your life back after 15years. Dont' mean to be funny but it happens so fast.

Also dont try to get new friends to full his position. Leave it open in case he ever decides to come back in.

I agree wit babygirl1120 you should go over to his house and confront him about how you feel and what he put you through and just discuss what you guys should do.

like I've tried going to his house but he wont talk to me.
once his mom came out and we were talking but he wouldnt talk to me
his mom tried to get him to come out so he did but didnt say one word to me
it was like I wasnt even there
and I went over a couple days ago too and he 'wasnt home'

I would move on - if he truely cared he would never treat you like that...I wish you every happiness in your future !!