Guys I need help. please

okso my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 5 months now and everything was fine and amazing almost the whole time. Just suddenly hes starting being very rude and mean to me, but blames it on the fact that hes stressed out. I let it slide the...

first two times but a few days ago he was beating me up with words so badly I basicly brokedown. All my friends are telling me to get rid of him, but I love him. AND I KNOW that sounds like retarded and I always wondered why girls stayed wiht there boyfriends when they were abusing them in anyway, but now I know that its hard. I fell in love with what he was, not this monster that hes become. Its just some of the stuff he says to me, is absolutly ridiculous and then I wonder if he really loves me. I just dont know what to do anymore. I think im more scared of being alone, than without him. So what do I do, how do I stop the yelling fighting and cruelness?

honey sometimes guys need a break from seeing eachother just
tell him to go a month or two without you and he'll want you back so
much he will be nicer and it's is sometimes we just have a hard time
with work or School so don't take it like he hates you.

Don't Worry

Bye, Lloyd

hmm ok even if it is stress that he is having..it is still not acceptable to take it out on his girlfriend!!!...you need to tell him that you feel inlove with the guy before..not the guy now..and that there is no excuse as why he is saying those things...if he tries to say things again..and tries to give an excuse then hang up on him"if on the phone"..or just leave if it is in person..you deserve better than that...but just remember...he is just "one" guy...

Good question. First, you need to find out the motives. Talk to him and tell him that you feel you can't continue in this manner so ask him what can you help him with not to be like this and solve the problem or you will solve the problem by leaving him. You must find out what is causing this stress to him (that "suddenly", maybe you could associate it with some event?) or maybe he just wants to get rid of you? I'm sorry to hear about your problem, let me know how it goes and I will guide you further.