Guys answer? why won't he talk?

My boyfriend and I are great together. We both love to do the same things and we are also both very positive people with the same goals/dreams. The only problem in our relationship is the fact that I think he is afraid to talk about things that are...

very deep to him. For example, his parents divorced a little while ago, I found this out from my HAIR DRESSER, he didn't even tell me and we were dating .. then asked him and he just said that tonight wasn't a good night and he'd tell me later. Me, being an understanding and relatively patient person, just said ok and let it slide. Well, that was 3 months ago and he still hasn't given me anything. Then, three weeks ago or so, I asked him why he never really tells me how he feels about me or gives me compliments... all he could say was that he loves me. Then I asked him how I made him feel and he responded with... "good" ... but it sounded like he wanted to attach words to that but couldn't. Then he asked me why I was being weird... so I said nevermind. There have been other things as well... like death... early this summer my cat who I had since I was 2 got cancer and died... he just said I'm sorry.. but he was old and maybe that was the best for him. Then just a few weeks ago, my best friend's mom (who I was close with) died... and he couldn't even ask me if I wanted to talk about it even though I was very upset. He is going back to school on monday and I need to have a heart to heart conversation with him about everything because I have a lot on my mind. so, a few questions... why does he not want to talk about his feelings? is he scared? what can I do to make him WANT TO talk? and how can I make him realize that when I do try to talk to him, I'm not accusing him of anything... I really just want an answer?

Peace and Love, Willow

hmm well im not a guy...but yeah anyways
well this situation sounds pretty difficult.
he may not want to talk to you about what he feels deep inside because he might be afraid of what u'd think?
well this may be the case, but it may not

the best thing to do is just to sit down with him and say "we need to talk"
tell him that you want to know how he feels about stuff
tell him what exactly you want from him
tell him that you dont like how he cant talk to you about important stuff and major events that have occured in his and your life
I think talking to him and making him understand that you really would like him to open up to you or at least tell you the reason why he cant.
maybe he doesnt see it as such a big deal for u
you need to let him know how you feel.
well I hope I helped in some way
good luck

Yeah you have to be aggresive with him, don't be afraid to make him cry.
Sometimes thats the only way things will come out.
I know I'm the same type of person, for certain reasons... But I'm a vault and no "soft" talk will "open" me up haha..
But seriously don't be afraid to crush the lock to get him open, it will be worth it.

He could be doing this because of past experiences he doesn't want to remember because at the time they seemed soo extremely bad and he hasent looked back on them since... Maybe if you got him to look at them again he will realise they arent as bad as he first thought.

I'd say he lacks remorse in the case of your cat. My cat got ran over, I didn't think too much of it.

And as for the feelings part, maybe he doesn't know what to say. We are males after all.