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As cliche and corny as it sounds, there actually is a good reason - it's all hormones. Testosterone is the culprit. We both have in in our bodies, but men have a LOT MORE. As well as body hair, deep voice, more agression, it causes us to have libido (sexual desire).
(It's measured in ng/dl which is nanograms per decilitre).
A teenage girl will measure at about 60 ng/dL, and after that, it goes up to 70 and stays there.
A young teenage male between the ages of 14 to 15, however, will be in the range of 170 to 540. By the time he reaches 19, that level has increased dramatically to a range of 250 to 900.
From the age of 20 to about 40, it averages between 280 to 1000. After the age of 40, it drops off.
That's the reason men want more sex than women, in general. It's all to do with biology and learning self control... so do try and understand they're not really pigs. lol. For many it's their whole essence of being and we, as females, will not understand this without going on testosterone supplements ourselves... Ask a female body builder how horny she is!
That's quite an unfair question to ask. There are lots of boys that are'nt only interested in sex... they also care about the girls. It's sad to know however, that an awful lot of guys are only interested in sex but you should'nt generalize hastily. Sometimes, the guys are'nt even fully responsible: some girls give out an impression that they are first-class sl*ts.
Sex can be an important, enjoyable and fun part of a relationship. But if its the dominant factor then, whilst it might be arousing and enjoyable in the short-term, it doesn't give much substance for a fullfilling long-term union.
If all I guy see's in you (and likewise if all a gal sees in a guy) is sexual gratification, then that relationship will not last for very long as it will become unfulfilling and ultimately boring.
A satisfying relationship requires many facets to keep it interesting and alive: communication, sharing, caring, consoling, giving and receiving. Taking everything into account, sex only accounts for a very tiny percentage of your time together - peole give too much credance to its importance, largely fuelled by taboo and media hype. By all means you should enjoy sex and intimacy with your partner but don't become obssesive about it.
I've been with girls whom I've loved but never had sex with and conversely I've had sex with girls whom I have not loved. But with reflection, it was the former that where the more memorable and fulfilling relationships, no matter how good or down right dirty the sex was with the other girls.
So, while many guys out there are just after screwing the arse off you and nothing else, there are many more who want more - much more. Just don't get hung up on the bad guys, otherwise you'll be blinkered to Mr. Right.



Why is it that all guys ever look for in girls is sex?
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Why is it that all guys ever look for in girls is sex?