Who else thinks kids are growing up too fast?

Ok before I say what I feel... if you dont like what I have to say please dont be rude because these are my beliefs... ok im ready =)

OK who else on here gets sick to there stomach when they see 12, 13, 14 year olds saying they want a baby?

And also...

saying Im going out with this boy blah blah blah... Should I take him back?
Does he really love me?

I mean that makes me sick! Like you are still a kid and you cant be in love at such an early age... Sorry its just how I feel... Dont be mean =)

Oh I really get mad at people at elementary schoool going out with each others... ewww Like my neighbor she is in second grade and is going out with a boy. Thats gross!!
Ok so you get were im coming from? Who agrees?

I do agree partially with what you are saying. It's niave of girls and boys who are 13-15 thinking that they want to have a baby. they have no idea what it takes, even if they think they do.
as far as the love thing goes. I think it's all based on how mature the relationship and the couple is. I think teens have a blinded view of what love really is and don't know what all needs to go into a relationship. You can't just have a relationship based on love.. there are other things that are involved like trust and loyalty and I think once they really do fall in love they will look back and see that it was just infatuation.

not just adults can be in love. love is for all ages. young and old. so I disagree with what you said about that. but I DO agree about the baby thing. it makes me sick knowing that kids that young are pregnant.. :/

I think what we are doing is judging the fruit rather than improving the growing conditions and what the trees are feeding on. Small wonder that kids are curious about sex, either vaginal or oral when they see it eluded to in so many ways every day. And girls that are just beyond playing with baby dolls who think that caring for a baby is easy. They have never had to be responsible for any of there actions yet .
I see my job here as telling the truth and answering the questions without my bias. It is tough sometimes when 12 - 13 year old girls are asking us rather than there own mother. But they arn't and so should we close them off or let them find out the wrong info?? I don't think so.
That's my two cents worth.
Gino

I agree totally with katydid747

I agree with her completely, most these kids don't know what the hell they are talking about, but I just laugh about it because they will learn soon enough. every 12-14 year old girl seems to be in love with their boyfriend, then when they break up next month, they will be in love with the next guy they date, its true, lol. im 20 and never said I loved any of my girlfriends, because I don't use the term loosely

I understand where you are coming from but are we not all the same at sometime in our lives no matter what age we are its how we cope with what life throws at us that truly describes our maturity

I agree with your concerns. But the little kids having boyfriends/girlfriends is nothing new - I remember agreeing to marry one boy when I was 5, and another when I was 7. It's totally different at that age, I'm sure. Otherwise, yes, teenagers and 'tweenagers' are certainly under pressure to act far too 'grown-up'.

I agree 100% of what your saying...its disturbing when I think im inlove with my boyfriend and im 18 the first time I've ever felt this way...because I am... but than seeing 13-15 yr olds talk about sex im like omg

there parents must be very proud...
they dont know what love or sex is and should stop pretending they do because they think its kewl

I agree agree agree!!! Man you people are smart! Lol im jsut fooling around... But yah it is sooo true. They say they love their boyfriend sooo much and even write I love so and so forever on their hands and the next week its someone new...

I agree with you too. Kids these days are growing up way to fast, whether it's from the Internet, TV, lack of parental guidance, outside influences, whatever.
It's hard for me to comprehend that 13 year olds are wondering if they're ready to have a baby and if it will strengthen their relationship.
Kudos!

I mean when your in the 1-6 grade its just you know puppy luv you know just a lil fun but about the love thing anyone could be in loe it doesnt matter the age but the heart

I do

I do

I agree, as a mother of 2, a 7yr old boy and an 8yr old girl, I won't let my daughter date till she's in her late teens, I was a good teenager, but society has changed and kids are a LOT more sexually aware now than I was at the same age, I blame the media. My daughter is a lot smarter than I was at her age and I'm scared when she becomes a teenager because right now she's a follower, I'm really going to have to watch her. Boys cause too much trouble early in life, relationships in general do, I'll have her look at other more important things in her life.

bravo maxypoo some one finally with a bit of sense I've been reading all these young 14 and 15 year girls saying they want t get banged and master ating they should be thinking about school work and education not sex and babys thanks maxypoo you made my day

whhhaaa laaa!!! lol
well guees what my friend I hang out with said I was completely wrong and said young ones can date... well a few days ago she came to my house crying she was pregnant and I was right? GO FIGURE!

isnt it strange how back in the 90's, kids were almost the exact opposite of kids today?
I mean wow