Good friends are really hard to find

Do people sometimes tell you thi ng and boss you about if they do what should you do

you have to stand up for yourself. If you don't then you can't do anything.

Someone has to be strong for you, why not let it be "You"

Well of course they do

but do I listen?NOPE!

I do my things my own way noone has control over me

except myself be your own person dont be a poser

watch the movie "Mean Girls" & see what happens to people

like that =]

the thing is with FRIENDS that doesn't happen. theres no time for it.your to busy doing other things like listening to each other. sounds like you need some REAL friends & not some inseceure little girls. people tend to do things like that cause they themselves feel not as good as. so its not you ...its them!

No I don't, and if they were your true friends they'd grow up and stop treating you this way. Have you thought about it this way; perhaps they put you down to make themselves feel better?

Just being about some of my friends, that's exactally what they do when they've have a bad day at work or some else going on. They come at like that I just tell them I know they're having some issues ,but leave me out of it.

You just have to learn when say no and stand of for yourself. If they don't change and see where you are coming from, then its time to change friends. Real friends are suppose to know each tension spots. Talk to them about it first, they may have no idea then again they might. Just get things out in the open. Wish you the Best of Luck!