Going all the way

Ok, so I am older than years old I am 17 and I want to go all the way with my boyfriend. We have been together for a long long time and I think its time we go farther than what we do now. I know he wants to also. But we are both kinda scared any...

advice will help me

Ok... well this is all I can tell you.. if you guys can accept full responsiblity of claiming and raising a child, soley by yourself, then you can proceed with sex, but if not... than wait till you are either older, or married... I would suggest thinking this over, because once it is done, there is no turning back, anyways, good luck, and I hope all ends well.. :]

There is not really any reason to be scared. You should be excited if you have finally made the choice and happy about it. I guess the first time is kind of scary though. I would of course take it slow and plenty of lub. If it makes you feel better, you can cut off or dim the lights. The first time is never the best sex you will ever have, so do not get your hopes up because it will only get better

use a condom for sure! it may not be what you expected, but the first time is pretty amazing, or rather dorky and cute if it happens anything like with me and my g/f. hahaha good luck