How to change my life?

Hey girls im 21 and my girl is pregnant. I've been with her six yaers and love her to death. I decided to join the army before we found out because im a very known gangbanger in chicago since I was ten.im what you we would call a gunner or an enforcer...

in the hood but want to grow up im getting to old and known and want a good futurefor us but know if I stay here because of my rep in the hood will get pulled back in all the gang stuff. But I dont want to miss out on any thing in my kidz life.my recored is bad but they will except but not to many good jobs will and drugs im tired of selling plus I want to b around 4 my kid. Should I go or try to make it here???I've been shot to amny times here I want it to stop and the only way I see is the army. Here too many pepole know me wa tcan I do. Please no critism I was young and dumb I know .so all you old ladeies that gna say you should of thought of that be for you did all that shut up.get a life im asking advice to change my life so no critism so get a life.

well I see no reason to critisise you do stupid things when your small I think that you need to forget your past if you want to be around for your kid then I suggest a move to another place away from your reputation, but if you feel that joining the army will cure you from doing any of thoses things again then go im sure your girlfriend will understand afterall it would make you a better farther it you could get a job to support them and they would not have to worry about your past anymore, do what you want amd she should understand
good luck

I think that you should move away from the place with your reputation. I dont think joining the army will help becuase you wont be around if yew get drafted and if yew dew theres a chance that you could get shot. hoped I helped!!