Should I let him see them when I'm self-concious?

I'm really self-conscious about my boobs. I'm a 34B. my boobs are perky, but my areolas are pretty big.. and one is slightly larger than the other. My boyfriend wants to see my boobs. we've been going out for about a month. I'm 14. I haven't been that...

intimate before and I'm scared he wont like my boobs at all, tell people about them, or insult me. I don't want to feel embarrassed... what do you guys think???

Hun its completely up to you, if you dont feel comfortable showing him then dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do. I didnt like mine for a while either and when my boyfriend saw them he understood and told me not to worry about anything. If you need anything at all or have any other questions you can funmail me hope it helps!

Relax, girl - guys love boobs either way. They may like certain kinds or sizes better, but that doesn't mean they hate all the rest! A boob is a boob and guys like to see and touch them, whatever they are. If you're worried about size, then just keep in mind that you're only 14 and still growing. They'll get bigger, don't worry. He probably knows that, and is self-conscious about himself too, as all guys are worried if the girl will like their pen*s. So both of you should accept each other and if you want anything bigger, just wait a few more years and it will grow.

So I don't think he'll insult you or talk about it to others (guys don't share as much details as girls do) but if he ever has the nerve to offend you in any way based on your body image, you can always fight back and tell him his pen*s is too small... Hahaha! That will teach him :-P

Oh, welcome to funadvice btw. Gal you have jumped on a rocket trip over this sex stuff. The dude is leading you far to fast. Slow him down while there is still time. As for his telling his buddies about your body parts. Nah, but he may exagerate about how far you and he have gone. Guys tell lies. Especailly when there macho image is at stake. Let this dude cool his tool for a while. Good Luck Gino