What should I get my girlfriend for her birthday?

Alright I am 13, and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months. I have already gotten her jewlery, and flowers for previous occasions. She is a difficult person to buy things for. I have already given her plenty of necklaces and bracelets. I have plenty of time until her birthday, but I want to have ideas so that I won't scramble when it comes closer to her birthday. Any suggestions of what to get her or ideas would be greatly appreciated.

You can learn a lot about your girlfriend just by listening to her.
Perhaps she has made mention of a favorite artist or favorite book or movie she would really like to have.
Have you gone to the mall with her and browsed? Keep an eye on what types of things she is checking out. Listen for 'I really like that...' and make a mental note.

Again, just listen to her and you will pick up some great ideas...

Well, any books she really wants, she preorders or gets right away. Yes we have been to the mall, but she isn't materialistic. Making it all the more difficult for me to get her something. Thanks for the adivce though.

She doesn't have to be materialistic to talk about things she likes or doesn't like.

What if you see something you like and hold it up and ask her, 'well, what do you think about this?' and see what she says...

I am sorry I am being such a pain about this. I should have been more specific from the beginning. She is the type who wont tell me what she likes or wants because she doesn't want me to spend money on her. Last year, I spent a month asking her AND her friends for ideas and no one would tell me anything.

Have you asked her mom?

Not recently. Her birthday isn't until Oct. Last year, I took her out to dinner at one of her favorite restaurants.

wow, seems like such a mature relationship for just a 13 year old young man.
Well, asking her mom is an excellent idea. However, have you tried perfume? or maybe a puppy? Maybe a Whole Day of surprises... starting with Red Roses delivered to her home in the morning..with a note stating what an unforgettable day this will be for her... then a Gift Package for a Day Spa, for a facial, manicure, peddie just being pampered little a princess... then maybe to a mystery dinner theater...those are always fun. (let them know its her birthday).

Maybe she'd like a Nice Coat and Boots.

Is she 13 too???

Well thank you for that compliment. I like the red roses, spa and dinner ideas. She is acutally 11 months older than I am (she's 14). Thanks for those. They are very much appreciated.

The sweetest gift a boy can give to his girl is his time, effort, and care. Take time, when you two are talking to find out things about her that you didn't already know. Take time to give her something special and thoughtful. Girls don't care if you give them a hug for their b-day, just as long as it comes from the heart. Good Luck

Thanks Prettygurly21. And thanks to everyone else who gave this question there thoughts and comments.

Again asking mom is a great idea! but might ask her brother or sister if have one? Maybe if she loves puppys get her one and if her parents dont want it at her house you can keep at your place! Maybe get her a trip for you and her and her pparents to go to the beach!Be sure to say to the parents you have to come to to or they may not trust you to alone together. and they might apperciate you more! Hope it helps!!

I think you this time you should give her something different and more special, like make a video or a slide show of all your pictures together, and you can include wishes/ messages from all her friends as well. she'd be able to appreciate it more because you have never given her something that you yourself worked hard on (literally). that way you can also show her how sincere you are and how special she is to you and to everyone else.

Maybe your girlfriend like perfume, cards, or maybe gift certificates to different places.

My advice to you is to just let your balls drop first. This is the greatest gift you can give to your girl.

Take her out to dinner at a nice resteraunt, and have the waiters/waitresses bring her another gift, like another form of jewelry or something else she might like with her order. Make sure to arrange such before the day of the event.

awh get her a puppy.. or a ring from like tiffamy's or something like that.. im 15 so here is what I would want:

juicy couture charm bracelet
betsy johnson bag
tiffany's gold heart necklace
free manicure for like a year
a sweet vacation with him
perfume
a pretty bible
taylor swift anything...
mark jacobs anything...
flowers with a sweet neklace or ring in it...

awww 8 months, datz cuyute.. newayz, back to reality here.., ok, well just go shopping with her, let her pick out a few things buy them, && LOOK! there's her gift! :]

well if you have lots of money you could spend tons of money. but if not just make something like maybe a holder for all the necklaces and bracelets you have already given her. but remember it's not what the gift is it's the thought that counts.

A Hoodie =D

give her flowers of her favorite color and a card and leave it on her door step and then ring the door bell and let he pick them up and inside the card have it say like happy birthbay and then under it it could say like PS: look up and the you would be standing there dressed in nice clothes then you think of the rest from there

give her flowers of her favorite color and a card and leave it on her door step and then ring the door bell and let he pick them up and inside the card have it say like happy birthbay and then under it it could say like PS: look up and the you would be standing there dressed in nice clothes then you think of the rest from there

I know her birthday is past, but to anyone who reads this, watching a girl's favorite 'girlie movie' with her is sooo sweet. my boyfriend and I can't drive, so we mostly just watch movies and one day I let him know that I wanted to watch my favorite movie, the notebook. haha. I thought that he'd just laugh and think I was joking, instead he said o.k. surprised the HECK outta me, and I'll never forget it.

first I like the whole day thing but here is what I would do.
in the morning send her flowers just 1 and write a card that tells her to go in her back yard have a stereo out there and play her fav. song. and run
then find a way to give her 11 more roses 12 in total but dont let her know its you and ask her parents if you and her can talk all night and talk. know you are like 13 (me 2) so bring condoms but don't make that your main goal and aske her if she is ready and make it romantic and in the morning leave a rose on her pilow when you leave or before you get physical tell her you have smothing for her and give her the 12th rose
(I have never done that I just made it up but I will try it)

DO WHAT you THINK IS BEST

dude im trying to find the same thing for my girlfriend

you people that are thirteen and thinking of sex.. seriously.. that is rediculous.. I'm 18 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. I've known people that had really good relationships and then they decide to have sex... and the relationship just falls apart.. I may sound like a parent.. but if you want the relationship to last... stay away from sex

if it were me...I love to get a long heart felt letter from my boyfriend. those are so important to a girl...material gifts aren't near as romantic

Collegerocks-

Sex does not ruin a relationship. I've been dating my girlfriend who is 16 and im 17 for about 4 months now and we have been very sexual for the entire relationship. If anything its made us care more about each other.