Getting your cherry popped ..

does getting your cherry popped hurt ? wouldnt it be embarrasing
if you started bleeding everywhere !? :| ... how old
do girls usually start fingering themselves at ?

the first time I had sex it hurt really bad but my cherry wasn't popped, it wasn't till the third time my boyfriend and I had sex when I loosened up a bit my cherry was popped, it didn't really hurt either. it's not that much blood, it's enough to get a little frightened about but I didn't notice until I was in the bathroom right after we had sex. and fingering yourself is a normal thing and is actually healthy for you . something about releasing hormones . if you're wondering about when to do it, you're probably ready?

Hrm..Gettin your Cherry popped doesnt hurt like people says it does..and you dont bleed a lot..Its just little blood spots..And girls start fingering there selfs at atleast age 12 Or a little older..Bit I never tried it=/..im not normal lol..

I actually bled a lot and it did hurt the first time but not how most people exagerate about it

Whoa... since when do girls finger themselves... ah... I never heard of this.. ? I don't know... its a form of masterbation.. and it's kindda wrong? is it? well atleast thats what I was always taught.

When I had sex for the first time it really hurt and it took me along time to relax enough to enjoy it but we are all diffrent it may not hurt you. I bleed just a little. I never fingerd my self so I have no clue?

It's different for evey woman. SOme have thicker hymens than others. And some have damaged their hymen through normal activities. For me it didn't hurt, it was just a bit uncomfortable and didn't bleed much, just a few spots.

it dosent hurt when you get your cherry popped it s just a little pinch and you bleed little spots!!!

do you have to have a long pen*s to pop a girl?

I, personally, got my 'cherry popped' 2 years ago and let me tell you form my own experience--It hurt like helll. I still remeber every bit of the pain. My girlfirends had told me that it would hurt for very long but it hurt me almost the whole time. When it was over, there was blood all over my partener's boxers and my sheets were saturated. I ended up having to wash every blanket on my bed and even flip my mattress. But the second time was better and the pain all but melted away.

every time that me and my boyfriend have sex it still hurts when its going in I thought thst it only hurt the first time why dose it still hurt !!

I have a question my girlfreind and I where having our first time yesterday, she said it was a very painfull expierience, and a day later it was still sore, she bled a little and I kept slipping out, and it was reallly hard to get in every time is that normal

Could it be possible to not get your cherry popped until 4 years after you started having sex?? No one I've ever been with has been really big.. but not very small.. but yesterday, the guy I've been dating and I finally had sex for the first time.. and he was really big.. and I bleed a little bit afterwards.. and I've never done that before.. Could it be that I just got my cherry popped after having sex for 4 years already?? does that make any sense??

is it better to ge your cherry poped be for your first time so when yo you have sex the first time you can injoy it?? PLEASE answer back because my boyfriend and I want to have sex in 3 weeks I promused him.. o0o and I have fingerd my self and one time I bleed when I did finger myself. HEPL!!

is it better to ge your cherry poped be for your first time so when yo you have sex the first time you can injoy it?? PLEASE answer back because my boyfriend and I want to have sex in 3 weeks I promused him.. o0o and I have fingerd my self and one time I bleed when I did finger myself. HEPL!!

Yea it feels so good I love sex so I encourage it Keep haveing sex girls.

can you get your cherry poped by another boys finger?

can your cherry get poped by another dudes finger?
and in highschool dont they test you to see if you are still a virgin or not?
pleaseeee helppp!!!

Okay girls! you r all very clueless! I dont no how you do it in america but in australia we certainly dont get tested for virginity in high school! - anyway when you finger urself or have sex you can 'pop' your cherry or even just stretch it. Some girls are born without Hymens and some can break theres during sport. The only way someone else can know you are not a virgin is if you tell them. I am 13 and I am a virgin but I popped my cherry doing gymnastics or something, I just remember a bit of discomfort that day!

is it normal for you cherry to be popped even though I have had sex with my boyfriend over 7 times or is it he dont know how to work his d*ck and I need someone else to work it

I was f*ngered a couple of days ago but it wasn't the first time I got f*ngered. It was by a different guy this time though. But when he did it, I was in SO much pain. Then, when I got home I noticed blood in my underwear. Does this mean he popped my cherry?? PLEASE help!!

To Charlyvsmike.

Maybe he 'popped your cherry' but he might have just been too rough when you weren't ready. The tissue inside the vagina is very sensitive, and if you weren't wet when he was fingering you, he could have damaged the tissue, which caused you to bleed. In the future, don't let someone finger you unless you're wet, because it will hurt much less.

And for God's sake, have him wash his hands!

he did wash his hands and I was wet though..

GIRLS DONT NEED TO FINGER THEMSELVES GET A MAN FOR THAT

save that for a boyfriend you will like it a lot better.

I had s*x for the first time with my boyfriend a little over a week ago and we have done it a few times after that. it didn't really hurt at all and I didn't bleed. I actually enjoyed it.

umm hey im just wondering.. the first time I got fingerd it hurt a lot but then.. I like didnt bleed at all only like a little bit .. hardly any. it hurt really bad. I couldnt really walk.

ok me and by boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and we are still waiting to have sex. but today we kinda experamented but we didn't go all the way he just was inside me for a second then pulled out. I don't know is that considered sex??? before this relationship I was dateing a guy who was very pushy and kinda abusive in the way that I said no and he wouldn't listen and he fingered me and I wasn't wet...trust me it hurt and I definatly got away from him as fast as I could because he was a jerk. it kinda ruined me in a way but I never have bled and when me and my boyfriend do stuff its great but do you think that my cherry could already be popped...I don't know I really think I just need someone to help me with all of this...it is really confusing I hope I made since

to VOLLEYBALLPLAYER12...
if your boyfriend went inside of you... no matter how long he was in.. its sex. I don't know how old you are.. but if you guys have been going out for 2 years then its really ok. Your cherry could have popped at any time, by fingering, tampons, or playing sports. Most girls don't know when there cherry has popped. I hope this helped.

so...like I was bowling last year and I went to the bathroom and there was just a little bit of blood on the toilet paper and I put in a tampon but it turned out that I wasnt on my period...so does that mean it was my cherry? how can I know FOR SURE it has popped? im 14 and a virgin

thank you charluvsmike you are great haha. thats the answer I was looking for were 16 so I don't know if thats 2 early but we know were going to be together for a long time and we have never had a fight or anything so I think its time. but I'm not sure.

haha thanks and no problem.
I first had sex when I was 16 with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years and as long as you feel ready, its ok. It's not a decision anyone else can make for you. I hope you two end up together for a long long time =]

thank you so much. yeah I think we will because he isn't like other guys. I know a lot of girls say that and everyones like no they are all the same. but he respects me and he just wants to hang out and play ps2 haha he isn't the kind of guy to just want that all the time you know. I think its great. but are you 2 still together?? we know that even if we break up we are still going to be life long friends and were still going to hang out. but I don't know I think were going to wait until marrage to do all of that but we were just experimenting

yes, we are still together and we have been for a total of 4 5 years now. Its so amazing and nobody thought we would make it this far. but we believed in ourselves. You should do that too and do whatever you think is right. I'm sure you'll make the right decision for you!!

THE FIRST TIME I HAD SEX I DIDNT GET MY CHERRY POPPED
I THINK I POPPED MY CHERRY WITH TAMPONS because I BEEN USIN THEM SINCE I WUH'sz LIKE 10 OR 11
EITHER THAT OR I DIDNT HAVE ONE
LOL
BUT I DUNNO AND I GUESS I NEVR WILL

I HAD SEX when I WUH'sz 13 YEARS OLD
AND IT DIDNT HURT ME because I GUESS TAMPONS LOOSEND ME UP
LOL
I'sz THAT POSSIBLE??

EEEW NO EHMAGAWD IT DOESN'T HURT!!!

OOOKKK!!!>...a lot of you girls OBVIOUSLY don't have a clue to what 'Cherry popped' means. for those of you that don't know...
your cherry gets popped the first time that you have sex!
since when did you hear about getting your cherry popped with Tampons or fingering???!
Every girl's cherry gets popped either the first time they have sex or because of some physical accident...get that straight!!!...

ummm ok... but actuallyyy...
your cherry can be popped by using tampons OR fingering
because my gyno said my cherry was popped because I was fingereddd
and she said it could happen from tampons too
soo I don't know where you get your info fromm

for me gettin ma cherry poped didnt hurt it really felt good maybe its only because ima freak and I can handle anything and everything!! And I dont finger myself I just have otha nii99az do that for me lolz but no it dont hurt

Yeah my cherry got popped last night and it hurt sooo bad. bein smashed helps though, you wont really remember the pain once your into it. =]

little_lady _21 your are a damn fool. 'Cherry popped' means hymen ripped. I am a friggin dude and I know this. Im a nurse and have a fairly credible idea, only hindered by the fact that I am a guy. If you dont know your own friggin body, then you have no business 'helping' others. AUSSIEBABE right on!

It really hurt me , I didnt realise what had happend til when I went home. I guess some of us are lucky and it doesnt hurt and sum of us are unlucky like me lol :] x

woah... I found this site like 3 hours ago and I learnt a lot, like how to give a lap dance, how to tell if im infected and that you dont bleed a lot when you have sex for the first time. and ya I'd say girls start fingering around 12 or older.

I have a question haha. I feel kinda stupid for going on this but im like what the f*ck?!

okay so I had sex with my boyfriend, and I bled that night after and stuff & I was like ohh my cherry popped. and I was like kayy thats normal.

then he fingered me like the day after or something and I bled (not on my period). and I was like ummm?? what the f*ck? and kinda ignored it.

then like 2 days ago he was fingering me and like it was good. and like he was taking me home and we went to a gas station for gas and I went to the bathroom and I had blood in my underwear like smeared. I was like ??? whatt??! so I got in the car and was like yahh um I bleeding from you fingering me. and he was like I know I noticed I had blood on my fingers and there was blood on his sheets.

it has been like 2 weeks since we had sex dont you think that my cherry should be done bleeding now??

oooh. finqerinq is *AWESOME*[note the stars around the word AWESOME]
haha;but when I do it its qrrreat b/c I've been horseback ridin since I was 6 and when I was just 12 my hymen boke OOOH BUDDDYYY but yeahh didnt really hurt for me; just a sliqht uneasyness occured. but I dont have sex yet SXE
wooo hope this helps; haha just wanted to tell MY story thouqh
LOVEEE YA PEEPSZ
KEEEP IT GANGSTA =]

UMMM I've HAD SEX FOR 5 YEARS WITH GUYS WITH BIG DICKS AND I NEVER GOT MY CHERRY POPED DOSE THAT MEAN I DONT HAVE A HYMEN

ummm I have had sex with guys with 7 inch dicks and my cherry never poped dose that mean I dont have a hymen ???

ok well I have had sex 5 times and my cherry hasnt poped. and I started fingering my self at age 11

im really confused...!!!
I havnt bled yet or gotten fingered
but im scared that what if I bleed,
then blood is all over his hand?!?!!
im going to be soo embarassed
do guys feel grossed out when they get our blood on them??
what shoudd I do?

na guys a generaly cool about it

I was when ma grlfrnd poppedand she bled on me I mean com'on it's just blood

I really need help yall. My boyfriend fingered me the other day and it was for a pretty long while too, it wasnt the first time he did it but, when he was in the middle of it I started to hurt, and normally I enjoy it a lot & after I bled just a little, and when he was doing it I wasnt all that wet, does that mean it popped or did it just get rubbed raw bc its been 2 days since then and its still hurting a little

I really need help yall. My boyfriend fingered me the other day and it was for a pretty long while too, it wasnt the first time he did it but, when he was in the middle of it I started to hurt, and normally I enjoy it a lot & after I bled just a little, and when he was doing it I wasnt all that wet, does that mean it popped or did it just get rubbed raw bc its been 2 days since then and its still hurting a little

I was watching this show on tv and they said that babies masterbuate!! O_O

It doesn't hurt but I shouldn't have done tat with a boy iam a lesbian I made a mistake

im 21 years old I always finger myself and experience new things down there your supposed to its your body everybody needs to know there own body im actually studyin to be a gyno... every girl doesnt always have to bleed, it just comes natural, it all depends on how tight you are aswell. I have been havin sex with my partner for 5 years I did bleed the first time but only specks of blood appeared some girls can bleed really bad some girls dont bleed at all, you just need to relax, it wont hurt as much either if you relax if you tense up then it will hurt but if you relax your body and your stomach muscles you should be ok I didn't and it hurt and it took me forever to actually get used to relaxing it used to hurt me all the time that I used to stop and my parnter appreciated it god knows why but yea then I learnt to relax and now I love it it takes a while to get used to trust me.
hope this helps some of you
and remember girls always make sure they wear a condom NO EXCUSES be safe...

I HAVEN'T tried fingerign myself and im 17 but im weird.. and everyoens different. I don't think ud really notice that much you bleed much and often its not noticeable if you do depending on what your doing at the time, im mean I've even had sex at the end of my period when I was so light I thought u'd stopped, if I hadn't told my boyfriend I was on my period he wouldn't have had a clue becos no blood showed. it doesn't really hurt and can happen during sporting activites like horse riding or anything like that. BUT I DIDN'T BLEED.

The only thing is if you consider having sex use protection!

It all depends, if your partner's size is way bigger than you then it will hurt more, but key point is the more you relax, the less pain you will feel. Important thing is you must be wet and turned on, and let yourself control the penetration at your pace, so you can learn to stretch. Some women have vaginismus(the muscle contract itself, so the vagina is closed, causing penetration to be very painful), its normal about 30% of women have vaginismus when the first time they have sex. It's not the women's fault it is the brain's automatic reaction. You will know whether you have vaginismus or not only when you first try out. Usually this can be overcame by the woman herself try fingering. Start by one finger, then 2, then 3, or you can use other objects.

How much blood varies too. If penetration happened fully, or partly, or whether the hymen/ cheryy torn bit by bit or altogether, or the hymen is just too strong it doesnt tear. It all depends. No specific way, each women and men is different. You just have to be patience, communicate and love each other so you wont feel its a wastefull experience.

Usually (depends) the first 10 times will still hurt, and after that you will realise it will get better and better. Just relax and enjoy and dont compare yourself with others.

Oh My gawwd Lol There are some silly people here lol.

I mean if you don't know enough about your own body (like saying 'I've had sex 5 times my cherry hasnt popped') and you not mentally experienced about it all then why are you all having sex lol.Hmm =/

x

I've never had sex and I don't plan to for a while. I've fingered myself a few times and didnt bleed but thats normal bcs sports and even certain sitting possition can 'pop your cherry' also if your cherry pops or you finger yourself it doesn't mean your not a virgin bcs only if you have sex does it mean that you're not a virgin.

so, I've been seeing this guy and everytime were with eachother, he fingers me. but im still a virgin and I dont know if my cheery has been popped by using tampons while I was on my period. how do I know if it has been popped or not?! can someone help me?

If you want to make sure your cherrys popped and to mas*erba*e I have a solution. Stick your whole hand up there and punch the cherry.

it doesn't hurt at all. people are just babies. after I had sex for the first time I was like is that it?!??!?!

oooh, im a boobie sucker yeah, IM a boobie sucker yeah,OOOh, and I like doin SEXYASS.COM!!!

Im 13 and have had sex with my boyfriend once,
But he always fingers me and I always 'toss' him off.
but when I finger myself it doesnt feel asgood.
Because I cant get in far enough cus of the weird angle.
So you cant pop your cherry by fingering YOURSELF.
Unless your fingers are VERY long.

THANK YOU little_lady_21. I`m happy SOMEBODY actually sees that you need a guys pen*s to pop your cherry. you cant pop it by fingering yourself or using tampons. popping your cherry is when the skin in front of the vaginal area tears when his pen*s enters into your vagina. the skin is flexible enough to fit tampons in it, buh not enough for the size of a d*ck. every girls cherry poops the FIRST time they have sex...so please get these little thoughts of essentially losing your virginity to your finger or a tampon...its just not possible.

okay for if Lucy fell. First of all
its normals everybody mastervates and its no t gross its natural and getting your cherry popped dosent hirt as bad as everybody says it does. And girls start doingim at like 12 or some older and some a
little younger hope it helped

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actually xo_m1sz_bella_ox not every ones cherry pops the first time they have sex czu I had sex 3 or 4 times before I finally popped! I even had sex with a guy who was like
2 1/2' around adn 9' long and I still didnt pop. I finally popped yesterday with a guy who was only 6' long 2' around.

okay question, when your cherry pops, do the guys get grossed out?

do guys get grossed out when they pop your cherry?

yes I popped a ex gfs cherry with my finger before

why the hell are 13 year olds having sex!!! is it just me or is that waaayyy to young to be having sex.

when I got my cherry popped it didnt hurt at all like most people think but there is many different ways to and most people dont know when they are popped

when I got my cherry popped it didnt hurt at all like most people think but there is many different ways to and most people dont know when they are popped

I started fingerin myslef at 12

It may hurt a little bit when getting your cherry popped and it might burn a little bit when you go to the bathroom.

OK I LOST MY VERGINITY IN A MOVIE THEATER WATCHIN THE SIMPSONS MOVIE! IT HURT SOOO BAD I COULDNT WALK HE HAD TO CARRY ME OUT OF THE THEATER.. BUT IT ONLY HURTS FOR LIKE A FEW HOURS THEN IT GETS BETTER. BUT I WAS 11 AND I LOST IT TO A 23 YEAR OLD SO MABE ITS JUST because I WAS TOO LITTLE. BUT I DUNO...

I HAD SEX 5 TIMES UNTIL MINE POPED I THOUGHT IT DID BEFORE UNTIL MY NEW BOYFRIEND AND I WERE...U KNOW AND BLOOD WAS EVERY WHERE. I GEUSS DUDE WAS REALLY KILLIN IT!!! LOL

well you realy dont fell any thing or see anything tell after it happen. you will know that it has been popped when you go to th batroom and see blood or when you look in you pantes

im kinda young and stufff, rite?

buht I think I love my boyfriend. and hes only a year older and hes done it. but I havent and im reallly nervous. like im not scared about popping my cherry or anything, im just scared to get pregnant...

I dont know I dont' think he has a big twinky but.. im just scared to...

im scared the condom will rip and stuff. I mean I know ilove him.

ohh && one time when I was little mi mom was giving me a bath and my pek started hurting hekkka bad and I couldnt walk... did I pop my cherry?

omg. im so scared to do it! but I seriously want to like you dont even understand. ahha.

im just scared because im young and I don't want to get pregnant!!!

I know

Some idiots have posted tampons can 'pop your cherry'
Dont worry they cant
just thought id war you

do you get your cherry popped everytime you have sex?

my 'cherry popped' my first time. my boyfriend was...rather large (8 inches) and couldn't stay inside of me because he was so long and I hadn't been popped yet. so he went in me as much as he could and just kept pushing. it hurt. I could feel when he went in to a certain distance, I could feel pain. it wasn't till he finally broke through that the pain stopped and he felt absolutely amazing inside of me. until I broke, though, it hurt really bad. I was even crying. it isn't so much that the pain is so unbearable, it's that it's a constant pain til the break actually occurs. I cried a little...which made my boyfriend want to stop going, but I wanted him to just end my misery. and sex right after your cherry is popped...wow...you just want him to go deeper and deeper.

you don't bleed much. after we climaxed and my boyfriend pulled out, I asked him if I was bleeding. as he was putting his close back on, he noticed blood in his underwear (left on him) and that's how I even knew I was bleeding. later that I night I bled a little, but just a little bit of spotting. there wasn't some explosion of blood or anything.

dont be scared it doesnt hurt that bad and you dont even bleed that much . once you get home check your underwere and youll probably see a small smuge of blood just dont be scared this is completely normal . and girls start fingerin themselves at whatever age they start feelin sexual for wee boys