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Eventually, most young sexual relationships do end.
Here is a proven fact> Once one engages in premarital sex as a teen, one begins to have relationship problems. Sex hinders communication. Sex is often the easy way out to those who have never learned to communicate. In most teen relationships, sex becomes the focus, and other aspects of the relationship have no chance to develop, like a friendship. Relationships that are solely based on sex are troublesome. In order to have a good relationship a person needs to develop a sincere friendship with his or her partner. Friendship lays the foundation for love to blossom.
Benefits of Abstinence:
~Peace of mind in your life and future relationships, and marriage.
~More self-respect and more respect for each other, and respected by other people.
~Always remember, in a healthy relationship, respect precedes love, and premarital sex only throws away your self respect and your partner's.
~You enter marriage with a more positive outlook and without carrying emotional baggage.
~Personal freedom for both of you and your (future) marriage partner.
~Significantly better chance in having more satisfying and more stable marriage.
~Longer lasting relationship. Premarital sex surprisingly breaks up more dating couples than any other factor.
~No comparing or being compared sexually in marriage.
~No worries about pregnancy and STDs.
~Less worries about bad reputation.
~It's a fact that persons and couples who have premarital sex are more likely to have extramarital affairs as well.
~Premarital sex often fools a person into marrying someone who really isn't right for them.
~You don't have to put yourself under someone else's mercy not to reject you. It's still a fact, that the more "experienced" guys and girls are generally less desirable and less respected as dating or marriage partners.
~Realize there is a 98 percent chance you will never marry the person you date in high school, so it is always better to keep yourself pure for the right person, that is your future wife or husband.
Why would you want to give it to the first guy who comes along? You need to be aware of the emotional consequences of premarital sex. Many women hold the mistaken idea that if a guy wants to have sex with them, the guy must love them or at least like them. Not so.
Ask yourself why you want to have sex. Is it because you want to make your partner happy or make him or her love you? Do you want to feel more grown up? Are you thinking of having sex because everybody else is doing it?
These are all really bad reasons to have sex. Sex doesn't prove love or make people more in love. It doesn't make you into an adult overnight either.
It all boils down to this;
Your self-respect and commitment. Abstinence may not be the easiest path to take, but it’s the one you will never regret
Good Luck! Please come back here in 3-6 mos. and let us know if you & your boyfriend are still together.



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