Does my boyfriend really love me?

I love my bofriend very much,but I feel like he doesn't care because he's always puts his friends before me.He swears he loves me,he claims he just doesn't have money like that,but he doesn't have to have money to spend time with me,but now he's claiming he's going to do right.I thnik it is because I started college and now I'm not home a lot. Now he calls me all day.What should I do?

I know exactley what the 2 of you are going threw as I was one of those boyfriends. The thing is Guys get comfortabile with there Girlfriends and think they will never leave them, they start hanging out with there friends more and spend more money on themselves than there girlfriend but let me tell you they really do care and love you they just forget the simple things that make a girl feel special.

Taking them out to the park just the two of you or running you a bubble bath with some rose pedals all over , or just simply cooking them a dinner by candle light just something that makes a girl feel that this person really cares and was thinking about you when he was doing it.

So what do woman do they break up the relationship and rattle the cage then realizing what he has been fucking up he starts doing everything for you and promises the world. Girl and Boy get back together things are peachy for a while then it goes back to normal.

Unfortunatley these are the games people play in relationships and untill you feel satisfied with what you have it will always be the up and downs.

You moved to college so he's scared of loosing you thats why he phones a lot, now that you're not there he's companion is gone and he feels that a part of him is gone to and is scared that you will fall for someone else.

What to do what to do...The choice is your's are you happy with him and does he make you happy or do you think there's someone better for you out there. If you feel there's someone else break up now and get it over with (to make it easier on you find someone else that you could share you're feelings with) doing it alone really sucks and hurts a lot. If you feel that he makes you more happy than sad then he's worth it.

Good luck

I dunno thats fucked up thats how my ex was now im movin on and now he try to talk to me more tell him he dont need money to love you n be with u

ok well my boyfriend is always telling me that he loves me and stuff but then he is always doing other things with my bff andn he swears he does not like her and that he loves me and I really do not know

Yeah, I fell you hurting girls out there. my boyfriend may have a baby with his ex girlfriend, but they aren't sure. and she's at his house every weekend with the baby. and she keeps trying to interfere with out relationship of almost 1 year. and he won't tell his ex girlfriend katie to trying to stop leading me out of our relationship. His mom even thinks my boyfriend needs to talk to her about her appearance at his house every weekend. but he keeps procrastinating and won't tell her to back off... I dunno what to do:-(

My boyfriend was listening to rummers about me and another guy that wernt true...He said he was sorry but I'm not sure he is!!!He's fun to hang out with,but he's sorta imiture when he's friends are around.Should I beleve him?!?!

it is fukd up I agree but I really tink that he lyx u... and if you don Bliev in happiness, ull neva b happy!!

I am 15. am I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 months, and we are crazy about eachother! I cry at night, because I wish that he was there with me. He shows me sooooo much love, we both know that we need eachother. But I have depression, and he doesnt. And I have a constant fear that one day he will be bored with me and find someone else. I know that there is no need for this fear, because justin is too good of a man to do that, and he loves me for who I am. I know that adults just think that its puppy love, but I know how I feel. how do I tell justin about my fears?

sorry if this aint competely relevant to the topic but, how can you tell that your boyfriend loves you? I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and he tells me he is in love with me and he never felt like that for any other girl, but till I know that its true and he really means it I can't tell him I feel the same way too! what signs do guys give to show how much their in love with their girlfiends without realising it? I don't want to get too close to him, for him to just leave.

well I felt the exact same thing with my boyfriend. I really hate that feeling, but I just talked to him about it and he understood where I was coming from...now everythings alright again..so I suggest you just talk to him..

I think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel and you should care if you are boyfriend hangs out with his friends more then you it's not going to hurt you what you need to do is hang out with them more go where they go show him that you care for him and you would do anything for him if you think it's true love if he says that he swears that he loves you then you need to believe him bc if he didn't love you then he wouldn't say I love you and swear on it and if anything changes then add me and let me know wats going on and I'll help you more if you want it my email addy is Fun mail me and my yahoo addy is Fun mail me oh by the way im only 16 and I have a boyfriend too that I love with all my heart and I've been thow what your going thow right now

YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT HE REALY DID NOT CARE WHEN YOU WRENT IN COLLEGE BUT NOW HE CARES ..♥..

I think you should get over your boyfriend, and start looking for a new one or stay single because it is looking like he doesnt want to spend time with you. He thinks he has to have money in order to spend time with you. All you need is a little tender loving and care and some time to spend together!

Point blank, the only way a guy will change if you show him life without you. Make him realize that you dont have to put up with the bs, even if it means you leaving. If you show that your a good woman and needs to be respected or left him for his faults, he would acknowledge that he is in the wrong and make those changes to make your relationship work. -thats if he really loves you

hey well umm I think you should try it and if it dont work den break up and find a better guy well hope it goes good bye

I have a question me and my boyfriend have been dating for nine months. We were best friends for a year. I LOVE HIM with all my heart and want to spend all the time in the world with him. I work nights he works days but the nights I come home he is working on his car and wont stop when I get home, I am off on the weekends and he always goes over to his friends house to work on his car. I just feel that he doesnt care as muh as he did. Also when we first got together he was so loving he showed me everyday that he loved me. Still he gives me flowers at least three times a month. I know he loves me but I just dont know what has gotten into him does anyone have any advice...

okay well I know exactly what your going through. I had the same problem. How about you tell him how your feeling. He's never going to change unless you actually tell him. Be like, If you care about me that much than you would want to spend a lot of time with me and at least try. What you said doesnt really show that he trys to hang out with you. I also think that he thinks that your always going to be there and be with him forever...he has no idea how hes going to feel when your not with him anymore...so if anything happens between you two and if he really cares about you he would want things to work..and he would change just for you! Or maybe hes been realy busy with things...I'm sure he loves you if he brings you flowers all the time. Maybe hes just busy with everything or maybe theres a problem going on and he just doesnt want to tell you because maybe it'll hurt you two? I have no ideaaa..but just confront him about it... hope everything works out!

well my boyfriend is the same way but I love him and he loves me for shour but sometimes things come up on your mind but when does things comee to your mind yust get busy or do something to entertain your mind

ok I need some advice myself. see my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months. im 16. befor we started going out ( while he was waiting for my answer) he liked another girl. he was going to ask her out because he thought I was going to sayno... anyways now today he has told me that he used to like her a lot of times... it bugs me tho because im not to sure he ever really got over her... he always seemed to notice her a little more then other girls ( because his friends mainly consist or girls) anyways he is always talking to her like he used to talk to me befor we started going out when he liked me... like nervously... like he babbles on a lot... and he always says her name when he talks to her... he is always seems to bring her up now one way or another... like today he said(___her name___) is worse then u. im like what do you mean? and he said well I was going to tell her about me likeing her befor and this is what happened... he told me that he told her he has to tell her something( he wanted to tell her he used to like her) and she said what... and he is like nvm I cant tell u... then she kept buggin saying oh tell meor ill cry and stuff so he was to nurvouse to say it to her so he wrote it on a napkin... then after ... and he is like nvm I cant tell u... then she kept buggin saying oh tell meor ill cry and stuff so he was to nurvouse to say it to her so he wrote it on a napkin... then after I was at one end of the room alone with one friend...( at my friends sweet 16) and he was sitting at the other end with her and some other guys... I kept seeing him look at her and always talking to her... then after that we were leaving and she came ot give me a hug because she had to go... so my boyfriend was beside me and she gave hima high five... so he said thats nice she gets a hug and I get a high five... then she gives him to hugs and he is like ha see I got two hugs and a high five... and he NEVER asks ANY girl for a hug accept me... then after I was signing a book for my friend sweet 16... my boyfriend was beside me and I wasnt looking and he was staring right at her... I saw it in a pic later that night... anyways another time we were saying if you had to choose to people from dieing who would you choose... and his choice was one of his other really good friends or her... and he is like her only because I really used to liek her... now today we were sittin in the roomm talking about the party and he is like is it wierd to like two people at once... and then he said it must have been a faze when I liked her... but the thing is why would you bring something up from so long ago? why would you care? im not so sure that he was tlalking about befor we started going out... I think he might still like her... seee he always tells EVERYONE he loves me and my friends say he is great for me but lately he has been making fun of me CONSTANTLY there is ot one nice thing that comes out of his mouth except im joking im sorry I love u... sure he has joked around befor but never this much... he always says you know im joking but im not to sure anymore... I dont know what to do... or think... im sorry confused and its begging to really bug me I just really dont want to mention it to him and sound like one of the jelouse gfs...

Ok seriously.
The girl asked a damn question.
Not everyone elses life stories!
Ok seriously sweetie. you know what time it is if he is spening more time with his friends then you!
I mean maybe its hard for you to believe it but I mean seriously.
If he claims he loves you and all that. Then he needs to show it!
Money isnt nothing when it comes to love.
and you need to tell em that.
and if even after that if he says ok I understand ill work on it.
and then runs off and those the same thing such as hanging out with his friends more then hes been hanging out with u.
Then let his dumbass go.
All us girls/women are princesses and if your boyfriend isnt treating you the way a princess should be treating then tell em to go on somewhere else !!!
Hope I helped!

Wow! I just left my boyfriend of two years for that very reason!!! That's strange that I thought I was going through this alone. The first thing to do is to talk to him about it. Anger doesn't work because men just ignore anger altogether...they're usually not very confrontational in relationships. If a sensible talk doesn't work, then try reversing his ways against him. If he thinks you're out with your friends a lot and you don't care what he does, then he may straighten up. If THAT doesn't work, it may be time to pack up and ship out...