Is it ok to have a disproportionate vaginal lip?

hello, I was recently in a relationship for the first time. we have been dating for a while and I am completely scared for the moment that he wil see/ touch whatever my vagina. my thing is that I am extreamly self counsiuos because one of my viginal lips...

is longer than the other. I do not understand why this happened but I am scared that it will freak him out. question #1: is that normal? does it happen? question #2: will it gross the hell out of him? question #3: should I go to the doctor?

Dont worry about it I have the same thing and my boyfriend didnt care at all, and if he does care then I think that is shallow. What he wants his hardwierd into his brain, so if you think about it, he will like it either way. And if its his first then he wont know the difference.