Disloyal boyfriend

Asked by pumpkin4 8 months ago, 3 answers.

Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months and we talk and stuff but he hangs out with girls a lot and goes over to their houses all the time and it kind of makes me angry. so I have been confronting him about it but lately he has...

not been willing to talk to me at all. he won't answer his phone and he won't answer emails. I have also told him that if he does not treat me with more respect that we will not last but when I tell him things like this he says "whatever" or "okay." I am very worried that he is either cheating on me or just does not like me anymore. please help.

Answered by kattie8451 on Mar 30, 2008, 07:13PM
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well I know you probably dont want to hear this but your boyfriend may need some room. by telling him about you not liking him hanging out with other girls is like telling him he cant have friends that are girls and you are isolating him from them completely. I know it bothers you but give him some space. try talking to him again and tell him you were wrong to get mad at him for hanging out with other girls and you were just worried he was cheating. if there is more evidence that he is cheating on you then break up with him and move on you deserve better then him and ull have plenty more... hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

Answered by theinjun on Mar 30, 2008, 07:19PM
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I have a different opinion than kattie8451. Most of the time whenever a partner starts being distant emotionally and physically in a relationship it is natural that they are that way because they feel a connection towards something else and it is a stronger feeling so they instinctively move towards that feeling.

I believe he is in fact cheating on you and even if he isn't, he does not care about your relationship enough to discuss such things. Forget about this guy because he is trying to forget about you.

Answered by funadvice on Mar 30, 2008, 07:21PM
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kattie is right. give him space..let him have friends, even if they are female. guys hate controlling g/f's. give him time and show him you understand. BUT I WOULDNT TELL HIM YOU WERE CHEATING!! NOO! THAT MAKES HIM THINK YOU DO NOT TRUST HIM AND IT WILL PISS HIM OFF. I LOST LOTS OF GUYS because OF THAT!! JUST DONT DO IT!!

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