How to do dirty talk?

Asked by hershey2009 11 months ago, 1 answer.

I want to get a lil goofy with my guy. what are some a the best things to do or say? How do you talk dirty yet make it sexy?

Answered by sikashimmer on Jan 19, 2008, 01:00PM
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The best advice for dirty talk I ever heard came from a pornstar. You just say what you're doing and what you want to do. But don't make it too clinical.

Here at FunAdvice, we generally stick with the clinical terms for sexual acts and body parts because we're adults and we want to talk about the topic in an adult way. That's the rule [I follow in my book], too, but that's not necessarily how you and your man will want to talk in bed. You'll need to find out what works for both of you: "penis" and "vagina" or words that are a bit more down and dirty — which is exactly why they turn you on. If there are words that you just aren't comfortable hearing from your partner, share them with him, and invite him to do the same. If there are words that you find sexy, let him know that, too. Don't be afraid of admitting that you like saying or hearing certain things — dirty talk or "passion chat" can be a form of role play, and it can be good to experiment with different phrases or expressions to see if they heighten your sexual pleasure.

If you're having problems thinking of what to say or you're just too timid try the book "Bad libs: The Good Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty"
Here are some excerpts from the book: http://love.ivillage...

You can purchase the book from Amazon for $14.93:
http://www.amazon.co...

xox
Sika

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