Difficult boyfriend's mother....help!!

I have been with my boyfriend for almost five years and i just found out that his mother hates me. Aparantly she has felt this way for the last three years. She has never been rude or disrespectful to my face, but behind my back she tells everyone how...

much she does not approve of me and that i am not the right girl for her son. She is a single mother and he is an only child. He is also thirty years old and a grown man. She has gone as far as to say recently that i am not welcome in her home(they live together) but this is all said to him... not me. I have been the only girlfriend in his life to treat him well and i love him to death. We want to get married etc. but i feel this is holding us back. What now? Do i talk to her? Its putting alot of stress on him and now our relationship. HELP!!!

Hi,im in the same situation as you and i do not let the witch get to me!misery loves company,i thought about talking to her but every one said no because she is jealous,immature,controlling etc,and that she wont change.i beleive i am the most decent girlfriend he has ever had.you would think the witch would be happy for him.my bf told me himself that she and his sister was jealous of me.so on valentines she called me and told me im not welcomed at her house anylonger!i was like thats cool!my bf is suffering with brain cancer and is staying with the witch so thats hard for us.i dont trip on him about telling his mom to chill out because he doesnt need the stress due to the cancer,i know that hurt him when she told him what she did to me.well is there anyway you and your bf can get a apartment toghether?because as long as he lives with her your going to have problems,also i think its your boyfriends place to talk his mom about her descion about you,also dont let know get between your love.best wishes

tell her to mind her own bissness or to put him on a convent.

tell the mother to but out of your relationship who is she to juge who her son can be with

hes 30 n lives with his mom ooooooooook neways if he really loves you he would move out leave his mom and care more about u