Did my cherry pop?

My boyfriend and I were fooling around last night and he was fingering me. When he went to use two fingers, for the first time, he had always only used one up to that point, I felt a really sharp pain. When I woke up this morning I saw about 8 drops of...

blood on my blanket that I was laying on last night and there was slight discomfort more of a soreness for most of the morning and part of the evening. Even now it sorta hurts when anything rubs or has any real pressure down there. I've read related questions and all I am is confused. I know that technically your cherry popping is having sex, but the term is also used as a tearing of the hymen, which is how the term originated. My question is, did my cherry pop? Can it pop more? Why is it still kinda sore and when does the soreness go away? Or if that's not what happened, what happened? And then considering that after that happened he and I stopped fooling around because I was kinda shocked at the pain, do I tell him what happened? (he and I are close where I would feel comfortable doing so.) because I don't want him to think that he did something that would hurt again or that he did something wrong.

okay.
your cherry can be popped by getting fingered, and often blood is associated with that.
as far as hurting..
that happens when your not used to doing stuff and you do.
it should go away after a day or so.
if you want to tell your boyfriend, then do.
but make sure he know's it wasnt his fault.

well I think yes it did if he went all the way up there you should ask him if he felt any thing pop I would make him go up there again and feel around and ask you if it really hurts and dont let a real doctor go up there! you are comfortable with him and you can be comfortable doing it...plus if you get a doctor you will feel way uncomfortable because they have really scary gadgets they can stick up there so let your boyfriend check you out it would just be more pleasure for you and for him!!

don't listen to allmeroth... ok please dont call it your cherry being popped, it just confuses people and they think that its inside you(which by the way allmeroth the hymen is external and covers the whole going into your vagina) if he switched to 2 fingers that meands the width is greater and can stretch or rip your hymen more(if its not already fully ripped). the pain and soreness is because your vaginal muscles were stretched and worked, it should pass soon if it hasn't after a week consult a doctor. telling him is a good idea, tell him to be more gentle and be more slow at moving up the next steps (adding more fingers or increasing speed or depth, etc.) oh and byb the way your hymen being torn isn't your virginity, only intercourse will make you not a virgin(unless your raped...so its only if you consent in having sex with the other person)

hopefully this has helped and you can funmail me if you want,
~DarthornX

Sorry Allmeroth, tho you just added me as your friend, I must give real advice to this poor girl. Unless your boyfriend is a doctor, you should see a doctor if the discomfort persists. If you are not married, you should not be going there with anyone. But you did. At this point there is possibility of infection if his hands were dirty with anything. That is a sensitive and venerable area for women. As far as viginity is concerned, you may consider yourself a non virgin. Even in a case of rape, the virginity is lost. At least on a physical level. On a spiritual level, a raped person may be considered a spiritual virgin. Depends on you and your behaviors. I suggest you read the bible.

u just got to practice fingering urself so it doesnt hurt when your boyfriend does it