Did i lose my virginity>

i dont know wat catagory to put this in but please help me out. i need to get it off my chest.
wen i was younger around 11 or 12 yrs old my cousin had inserted his penis into my mouth. and i tried to refuse but he sat on top of me so i couldent get off....

then another night i was playin around and he did it again.
im afraid ive lost my virginity because of this.
jus tell me wat i need to hear please and ill feel better because iam worrying to much about this issue.

Well everyone looks at virginity different. Alot of people believe that you lose your virginity when you have intercourse for the first time. And others believe you lose your virginity if you do anything sexual with another person.

So it all depends on your beliefs and values.
The definition in the webster dictionary of a virgin is "a person who has never had sexual intercourse"

Virginity is a spiritual attribute, not a physical one.

Hope this helps

thank you this really helped me.
but i still would like more info from anyone that can give any ,

thank you

Yes you still are a virgin... how old are you now? how old was your cousin when this happened? that is sexual assalt you should really tell someone about it please... have you yet? Do you still see him?

its all ok now it was years ago i dident think kstraight cuase u was young but its ok i ju wanted to know.dont worry because alittle while after that. we stoped.lol
i went along with wat he did after words wen he started to touch me and stuff but i fgured out that it was wrong and i sia dwe are done i dont want to be gay it is wrong by god we cant keep do in this cause idont like guys and espaeciall y my cousin. so its ok now we have stoped and see him once in ahile it s ok now.
thanks for caring

No you have not lost your virginity. It sounds ike your cousin needs some serious counseling though. What he did to you was rape pure and simple, no matter what pretty words anyone else wants to use for the action. How old is he? If he was much older than you, you should report it to the police because at 11 you are not old enough to make any sexual decisions. At the very least, you should talk to your parents or his about it before he does this to someone else. Often getting away with committing acts like this on one family member will lead to other occurances.

YES YOU ARE STILL A VIRGIN UNLESS HE MADE YOU BLEED

sorry but technically you did. that was oral sex. and its still considered sex but you cant get pregnant by it. in a way you did and in a way you didnt.

how long ago was this incident? how old was your cousin?

how do you feel about this today?

FIRST OF ALL THATS GROSS HE IS YOUR COUSIN HE MUST LIKE GETTING PLEASURED OR SOMETHING BUT THATS JUST WRONG..AS FOR YOUR QUESTION YES YOU ARE STILL A VIRGIN!!..HOW ITS PRETTY OBVIOUS BUT YES YOU AE!!

u don't lose ur virginity until ur hymen breaks...at least that is wat i have heard tell me if this works...