Did he use me? guys & girls opinions please

I've been best friends with the same guy for years & we always spent tons of time together. A few months ago he got a girlfriend and he stopped spending so much time with me (of course because he needed to spend time with his girlfriend). It was wierd in...

the beginning but we made it work out. Recently, he's cheated on his girlfriend with me by kissing, and then eventually we ended up having sex. Now after the sex, he's completely stopped talking to me. I tried to talk to him once, but he said that he was busy with his girlfriend and would call later... he never called back. It's been over a week and he hasn't made any attempt to talk to me which is very unusual since we usually talk everyday. What should I think? Was he using me for a cheap thrill? Does he resent me now that we've hooked up? Its important to know that all of the hook ups were initiated by him, not me. I'd like opinions from guys and girls if possible. Thanks guys!!

It sounds by his actions that he was just using you for a brief fling becos he nos that he can and you wont run to his girlfriend and tell her becs you have known him for a long time. My advice to you is that you need to cut ties with him, its not ok for him to come and go as he pleases and string you along with mixed messages, he cant have his cake and eat it to, and you need to stop giving into him so easily. He has a girlfriend, he is off limits, so dont do anything with him becos you will make him think your easy and he can come to you when his girlfriend isnt satisfying him and then drop you again when all is well. He is a dog and you deserve so much better, so go find him!

It sounds like he is ashamed of what he did and feels so bad about it that he doesn't want
to remind himself about it. So he is shutting you out. Not saying your sex was horrible
or anything but he probably feels really bad about cheating on his girlfriend.

My opinion he was using you, an playing both of you, you can do better then that!

There are many possibilities to consider, maybe he thought he liked you and after being intimate with you he realized he doesn't and doesn't want to confront you to hurt your feelings.

First of all, I am sorry for your nickname! ) Short answer is, yes, he's used you, but he didn't do it too much on purpose I think. He just wanted to have sex with you, I hope you understand that. And then, he thought that he is better with his girlfriend, probably. Not a nice behavior from him I'd say.