Controlling husband

Before my husband and I got married we had a rough spot, I admit I cheated on him, we broke up and a few months later we got back together. I came clean about everything and left nothing a secret. About six months later we decided to get married, and he...

told me he would not let the past hinder our relationship. We have been married for seven going on eight months, I dont know if hes just curious but he is always looking through my stuff, when im on the phone he is right beside me, asking who im talking too, what we're talking about, when im on the pc he is over my shoulder looking at what im doing...he knows all my passwords to every account that I have. when I use messenger I have to use his or he thinks im up to something. I cant go out with my friends, since we've been married I've only been allowed to go out with a friend one time, and he called and asked me to come home two hours later because our daughter missed me. I gave up my job so I could stay with my daughter full time, he knows where I am 24/7, so I dont know what his deal is? ANy advice??

Trust is something you have to earn. Even though he said your past is in your past in the back of his mind it will probably always be there. It will take awhile for him to start to really trust you again. Just be patient and eventually he'll realize he has no reason to doubt you.

Good luck

It's obvious that the past is still in his head and he can't let it go even though he said he could. That's what it is. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and see what's going on...but that's what it is. He's paranoid that you might cheat on him again...he can't let the past go.♥

Sounds like a life you don't deserve. Yes, you did do wrong in the past but you admitted to it and he said he would not let the past reflect on your future together. Seems like he's doing the opposite of what he claimed. He needs to change his ways and you can't live your life like this. It's probably not good for your daughter either. Get yourself and your child out of this before it gets worse. A controlling man is never good.