Controlling boyfriend

What do you think of a 26 year old boyfriend who monitors his 24 year old girlfriend's myspace and gets angry when he sees something he doesn't like? he tries to tell her what friends she can or can't have. He even monitors how long she spend time out...

with a family member...like shopping with her mother or sister. he hates when his girlfriend spends her money on clothes. He's nice as long as his girlfriend does everything he wants her to do. and by the way, her family hates him because of all the bad things he's done to her. they did break up for awhile and she had a peace order against him but a month before it expired she decided to give him another chance and completely ignores how her family feels about it. he has no real goals in life either. what would you say to her?

id say she needs to figure out what she wants in life
she can stay with the loser and be miserable and hope things get better
when chances are they wont

or she can move on and find a new guy
who treats her good and makes her happy

she isnt his property and he needs to stop treating her like she is
shes a person too and theyre both adults. if he wont change then she needs to leave

I would say that if she stays with him she's in for a life of emotional and physical abuse.

Man thats a grown lady and she dont need no man telling her what to do so she need to dump that sucker.. she need to listen to spotlight by jennifer hudson and shell understand what she should do

Unfortunately, people who are in abusive relationships don't always want to leave their partners. She is totally dependant on this man and he is totally in control of her life. It isn't healthy but despite what her family or friends say she goes back to him. I suggest not letting her down completely because she still needs her friens and family even if she does have problems. Keep your distance but tell her, the door is always open.

I will tell her to leave him and never go back, all the things he's doing are little steps that leads to abusing. I don;t understand how she can like him or stay with some one like that.