Controlling boyfriend

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months. At first our relationship was steady but now I feel like he controls my life. He goes through my phone and tells me who I can and can not hang out with. He made it so people couldnt call my cell. Hes...

slapped me across trhe face once. And he punched me one time on my arm becuase he thought I was going to hang out with this one guy. Its not fair because he wont allow me to go to parties or anything but he turns around and hangs out with his friends and goes to these girls parties. Am I being controlled? And if so what should I do?

I read your Question and it sounds like what i would write. He is controlling you and it has to stop and the violence is going to get worse. he wants you all to himself. You shoudl explain to him that you are all his, how much you care about him. He has a problem and he shouldnt hit you. I know exactly how you feel. Tell him that he can go through your phone but only if he asks. tell him that you like your friends and you dont want to lose their friendship... please write back and tell me more......

this is EXACTLY wot im going thru so i no how you feel. sadly i cant give u any advice coz i dnt no wot 2 do myself. wen did this start?myn started 3 - 4 mths ago.e says to me dat even if i playfully hit him hell hit me twice as hard! im not alowed to ne parties or social events myself but he can do what ever he wants. its jus not fair!
i think that u shud get out and 4get. ur gona b hart broken 4 da nxt 2 wks but itl soon pass n ull find sum1 else - sum1 better. but its different wen u love sum1. i really do feel 4 u

I understand where you are coming from because my boyfriend of 3 years go through my phone and I go through his but he isn't controlling to the point it is scary. He doesn't control me cause I won't let him. I think that you need to get out of this relationship because it's no telling what else he would do to you. No women needs a man that controls her every move. It's been only 10 months so you need to get out while it hasn't been that long in the relationship. Protect yourself and think about what is best for you. No man should put his hands on a women and you should have left him alone once he put his hands on you. Please get out of this relationhip because your life is in jeopardy. Believe me you can find someone that will appreciate and respect you!

oh hun NO! NEVER let a man hit you!!! nope he has no excuse for laying a hand on you! you are being controlled and you need to kick his ass to the curb!! he should NOT be treating you like that! my Dad was JUST LIKE THIS with my Mom and you DONT want to be in a relationship like this. it got to the point w/ my Mom that she couldnt even go to WaWa!!! you need to RUN! run away from him. he is going to hurt you emotionally and/or physically. dont let him do this to you! you deserve so much better no girl deserves a guy like this. get away hun, get away. good luck with this...write him off.

By the sound of it your are being controlled. He sounds like he could be dangerous. If I where you I'd tell a parent or teacher what's going on. That way if they see anything wrong they could help. I'd also break up with him. I know this sounds low but if you tell him to his face he might really hurt you. you should text him or send him a letter explain to him that hes not the man you fell in love with. he wont understand but you'll be free. for the first few days after the break up you should always hang around someone. that way he can't pull you aside and hurt you.
Good luck.
Hope you work things out

Get out now sweetie...it will only get worse as time goes on.