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Confused over response! did they break up?

Asked by fau about 1 month ago, 5 answers.

After telling my friend that her boyfriend cheated on her, I sent her a message to see how things were with her and got this:

"we just need to put it behind us and move on. Thats what Im doing and I hope you can too"

Does that mean they broke up? I...

dont want to ask her directly cause I dont want to hurt her.
What do you think?

Answered by colethky on Oct 04, 2008, 04:41PM
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Nope, that means they are trying to work on it and you're never supposed to bring it up again.

Answered by kricket on Oct 04, 2008, 04:43PM
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oh wait..the "We" means her and I (who found out and told her)..and she hopes I can move on from finding out he is a cheater...just for clarification..

Answered by rwal0706 on Oct 04, 2008, 04:46PM
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Because she isn't going into detail about what she is doing... I get the feeling she is probably back with him and doesn't want to talk about it or be reminded. If not she is probably hurt and is trying to get over it. If you are a good friend don't push her for an answer. You will find out sooner or later if you see them together. Put the past behind you...in other words I don't want to talk about it. Give her some time...

Answered by stephanief987 on Oct 04, 2008, 04:51PM
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I don't know - it could mean either option. I don't see anything wrong with you asking just to clarify.

Answered by ethmer on Oct 04, 2008, 08:43PM
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"we just need to put it behind us and move on. Thats what Im doing and I hope you can too"

I'd interpret it to be referring to YOU and HER.

Best to err on the side of caution and NOT bring the subject up. Not bringing it up causes no harm. Bringing it up could cost you a friend.


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