Confused boyfriend

Comment for shaeluvspete's profile Asked by hisgirl 3 months ago, 4 answers.

okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out almost 9months now we both love each other to death but here the past to weeks he has been getting hateful and making me feel like I aint wanted at his house and that he doesnt care if im in his life...

anymore or not..I try to talk to him about it but everytime I do he doesnt want to talk about it or he gets aggravted and we stop talking about it I know he is going threw a lot right now but seems like he keeps taking it out on me I lost all my friends and everything cause they backstabbed me and he lost his but that happened a couple months agao..but it just seems to me he is taking everything out on me and I relly wouldnt be able to live without him id honestly would leave this world if he ever left me what do I do I love him so much..

Answered by fau on Sep 21, 2008, 11:47PM
3937 answers

mmm the whole spending too much time together is not true.. how do people live together if its unhealthy to spend too much time together? im sure she spends less time with her boyfriend then people who live together. lol not to mention me and my boyfriend are together all the time and its been almost 2 years, and still perfect. then again, we do have friends.

He could be annoyed that he only hangs out with you, he should make friends. and so should you. Tell him to stop treating you rudely. but make sure youre not just being paranoid. Cause if you always ask him and always think theres a problem, he is probably very annoyed. If youre not paranoid, Tell him to treat you right or your gone.

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Answered by emalie on Sep 19, 2008, 10:22AM
17 answers

This is simple. You guys are just spending too much time together. You said you both have no friends, encourage him to either make new ones, or make amends with the ones he had. And YOU do the same. Spending time together is great, spending too much time cause friction.

Answered by disneyqueen on Sep 19, 2008, 11:06AM
49 answers

if I were you I would ask him in a serious tone does he love me and and if gets mad and not tell me any anwser I would just move on .

Answered by ellegurl2 on Oct 01, 2008, 02:20PM
11 answers

From what I read it seems like you are just wasting your time on this guy. Regardless, what he is going through, he has no right to take any of it out on you, and you are even more wrong to just sit there and accept it. I understand that you are in love with him, but you have to move on, it doesn't seem like he cares much about you, your well being and your feelings. You have to have pride and self-love which you are not showing much of right now. You should love yourself way more than you love him. You go before anything in your life. When you are trying to talk to him, it seems like he doesn't care about what you have to say, and if your opinion is not being considered then you should leave. What benefit are you getting out of this relationship? You lost all your friends and he treats you like dirt, and if you are not wanted at his house or even feel that way then you should leave. You should never stay anywhere and feel unwelcomed.

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