Confused and torn at a distance

Asked by dios31 over 3 years ago, 2 answers.

I have a group of guy friends from my hometown that I have been acquantinces with for years. I recently started having a sexual relationship with A even though I have no feelings attached to him. He has hinted around that he likes me and wants more but...

hasnt pursued it heavily because I go to college in a different state. Recently I went home for a weekend and ended up making out with A's friend B, whom I have always thought was very attractive and had a little crush on but I never thought he looked at me as anything more than a friend. We left it awkward and with a vow to not tell anyone to try and not hurt feelings. My dilemma is I REALLY like B now. I think about him all the time and our recent hook up has only added more fuel to my crush on him. He answers my calls and texts but has yet to call or text me first. I dont know if our hook up was a conveinece, one-time thing for him or if he does like me but doesnt want to pursue anything because of the distance. Also, what do I do about A? I dont want to hurt his feelings but I dont get the same butterfly, nervous, excited feelings I get with B. I'm not going to hurt A's feelings if nothing is going to come of my relationship with B. Agh- HELP!

Answered by funadvice on Oct 19, 2005, 01:04AM
42315 answers

Hmmm, these are hard situations! Have you tried talking to B? Properly? i mean maybe it just was for fun that you 2 hooked up, or maybe he really did like you. I think you should talk to him.

Answered by rebecca2005 on Oct 19, 2005, 05:44PM
46 answers

im whit her talk too him and try too do what u think ur heart is trying too say.......good luck

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