How can i stop my husband from lying?

My husband of only a year lies to me all the time. When I confront him he gets real loud and mean. Sometimes he admits the truth and sometimes he still denies it. A lot of times when we aren't together he never makes sense of what he did or just lies...

about the whole situation. On two occasions he looks suspicious of cheating. He says he hasn't but he has lied so much to me how can I honestly believe him? Every lie he does admit to I tell him I cant handle another one and he preaches of changing and I still catch him in lies. We have two children involved and I want our family to be together.

Well, what has he lied to you about & that you know he's lying about?
What has he admitted to doing?
You kinda left us not knowing anything.

Let him in on your feelings,
don't ramble about his lies,
not at first, anyway..
First let him know how you're feeling.
You have kids together?

That's great.
Speak about the kids.
Let him know you don't want them to go without a dad.
& that he needs to straighten up,
if he wants to continue being in their life.

Good Luck.

Sounds like you have a complusive liar on your hands, your never going to have a good and strong relationship becos he has lied so much to you he doesnt even know what the truth is. If he cant give you a straight answer to what he was up to and lies there is something to hide, so he is doing something he nos you arnt going to approve of, cheating, gambling.....something bad that he feels the need to lie about. Your never going to get the truth so id consider asking him to go to councelling together or leaving.

Lie to him and see how he likes it but lie really terribly lol