Should i get married if i'm confused?

I am 19 and my fiancee' is 21. we have been engaged since feb. of this year! we have planned to get married aug. 25th but im not sure if I am really really ready! I have always been in relationships to where I have to keep it going and they was a big...

challange and now my fiancee' just falls at my feet about anything! I love him but I dont think that I love him as much as he loves me! I think the reason that I am like this is b/c he is not a challange. What should I do?? I am excited about getting married but not sure if I should! I dont want to leave him and it be the wrong thing but I dont want to get married if it isnt the right thing for me to do either!!! HELP ME!

maybe you should talk to him(obviously dont tell him that he's not enough of a challenge and that you don't think you love him as much as he loves you) tell him how you don't think you are fully ready to get married and ask if you can perspone the wedding until you feel ready and get your head around it all. this gives you time to figure out what you really want and what you feel is right or wrong for you. hope this helped! x

Don't get married if you're not sure. I too was engaged when I was young, around 20, and I called off the engagement because I just wasn't sure if I was ready & if he was The One. You're still so young, don't settle for less than true love! If you need to talk to me I'd be more than willing to help you, so send me a Funmail if you want!

You are still VERY young. If you are not 100% sure then you shouldnt! If you are having these feelings, its best to wait things out and see if they change. Why are you in such a hurry to get married anyway? You have your whole life to be married. You said you dont love him as much as he loves you. Thats a big reason NOT to right now! Sure your excited, but you have to get married for all the RIGHT reasons! NO DOUBTS WHATSOEVER!
Heres a cute saying for you since you mentioned you dont want a guy falling at your feet>
I don't want a man to be my twin
Under my thumb, under my skin
Don't want a man like a shadow on the ground
With nothin' else to do but follow me around

I like a man who will cry on my shoulder
Who don't mind if I cry sometimes too
That's what I like about you

You can be soft, honey you can be strong
Maybe that's the reason we get along
Everything you do you do just right
You're tender in love, tough in a fight

I like a man who will lay down beside me
Stand up to me, cry on my shoulder, crazy about me
Can live without me too
That's what I like about
Can't live my life without
That's what I like about you