Should I even be in another relationship already?

I've been in a relationship for about 2 months and a week and its been my longest of all at the moment... I just broke up in that relationship for about a week now because my ex didnt treat me right and all...

2 days after I broke up with my ex I needed...

comfort and thought that I should hang out with some of my friends just to get over him and not think of him, I invited my friend T and my 2 best friends who are girls and my other friend J.

All of us except T usually hangs out in school, J and T are friends as well and they get on really well and theyre both guys. Well we all had fun, but I was getting to close with T and J and I just like got off in a relationship.

I like both of them but dont want to hurt any of them because I feel like if I go out with 1 of them its like im using them to get over my ex that will just hurt both of us in the end. But its been over a week now and I dont feel anything for my ex but im confuse if I should be in another 1 already, and with 2 guys I cant pick 1 who if they both ask me out, because I get the vibes that they do like J when we were over at T's house and I was like watching a video on T's laptop he went and laid next to me on T's bed and he like stroke my hair and made eye contact with me and he always asked me if im ok and his a gentlemen but however...

T and I have a lot in common were both a bit shy but we have our own fun too, when me J and T hanged out again me and T just laid on his bed (nt like that just like sitting and layin down) watching Lee Evans tour, while J was busy playin on T's computer. Me and T pretty much like the same things and we have great laughs together and his sweet and caring that he just makes me happy while I was sad about the whole break up thing, I luv his personality and we get on really well.

J's a bit wild and the thing I dont like about him is that his a bit immature and wild as like T he is immature but knows when shouldnt be...

Im confused and I dont know if I should go into another relationship already or even plan on being 1 already and if I do make my mind up who should it be? because I've been told theyre both going to ask me out :S

I think the best thing to do right now is to wait it out. you just got out of a relationship. wait for about couple of more days. T sounds like a really nice fella, if both T, and J ask you out I think the right choice would be T (from how you explain it) So when the time comes and if they ask you out, try not to go to make J feel like he does not count (visa, versa) GOOD LUCK =D if you need anymore help funmail me, tell me how it works out lol =F

I like funnygals advice. Just wait for a while, although if it came between choosing I would definitely go with T, since J is immature at times. Immature boys never help, and you probably won't have as meaningful a relationship as you might like; he'd probably be nice for having fun and stuff but maybe not so much when it came to deeper things and emotions.

I think that you should waitand not get into another relationship soon

it seems to me that you like T more.
so you shud go out with him

Wait for a while and if they do ask you then pick who you think you'll have deeper and meaningful relationship bt dont get your hopes high you might just get hurt again already thats why wait for a while give it another week or something surely they can wait cant they? But as in everyones opinion T is winning gdluck!!

Thank you for your advice!!!

everythings working out fine with me and T and now were together and all of you are right about him