Can't send funmail, what the crap?

ok I sent a funmail to "the dude" and now I cant send a funmail to anybody else, what the crap, why isn it not letting me?

Your account is fine. If you're trying to fun mail an *underage* member, then you need to be on their friend list, first. You're over 18, and we try to protect minors (under 18) who are on the site.

So...you're probably trying to fun mail a minor. Add them as a friend, or post on their profile to ask them to add you, then you can fun mail.