Can you be sure of your sexuality at 14?

Can you be sure of your sexuality at 14? My friend said that you can't really be sure untill you're fully developed (mentaly and physicaly), but I think if you're gay, you're gay, and as long as you're old enough to understand all that ( ie, not a little...

kid ) then youshould know. What do you think?

yes
you can be sure of your sexuality at any age really
even 3!
you could be sure about ever since you can remember
however a lot of people do realize they are after theyve had some to=ime to think about it or experiment, ect
but yes, its possible to knwow your sexuality at any age

Its possible yeah - but I think a lot of people at that age are still experimenting. When I was that age I was 100% sure I was straight, I knew it all my life. But I did have a lot of friends at that age that claimed to be bi-sexual and now 5 years later, most have them have gone one way or the other.

 
No!

Your hormones, emotions and knowledge are all changing. You might think you are gay or bi but you don't have the necessary experiences yet to help you really know. As you mature things will change and you will be better able to know yourself and what you are.

Also, at your age, experimentation is a natural part of growing up so don't try to classify yourself based upon limited experimentation. You have a few years to go before you will naturally decide.

I think it depends from person to person... some people dont figure out they're gay till they're in their 30s and have been married for 10 years, some people know their whole life... People who've thought they were gay their entire lives fall for someone of the opposite sex... This idea of a rigid sexuality is all in society's head... I really wouldnt stress about it one way or another...

yeah I think you can ..

I you no what you no and your never realy sure of your self im stright and I no that from me no 1 els can tell me what I am and it is all up to me I'v non that since I was 7 and so you can no at aney age as long as you no the meaning of stright and gay or even bie so yea

The safest thing is to assume you're bisexual, and just date whoever you fancy.

it'll all sort itself out.