I can't get over him

I was sort of in an open relationship with a guy for about 9- 10 months. and one day it just ended, with no warning.. it wasn't over for me.. but it obviously was for him. We hardly ever talk anymore. But I seen him not to long ago, and I was like...

shaking, I was so so so unbelievably nervous. I don't know why I can't get over him, but I haven't even wanted to get into a romantic relationship since him, I've tried a couple, and I always ended up comparing them to my him, and it seemed like it would never be the same, so I've just kind of given up on the relationships right now.
I don't know, it just seems like I'll never be able to move on..
maybe it's just because I'm afraid of getting hurt again.
he just forgot about me..
maybe this sounds stupid, I'm only 14, it couldn't have been love right?

It wasnt real love even though it may have felt like it. Your still young, why do you feel like you have to date right now? Why not wait a couple years, and just go out and have fun with your friends. Let things happen on their own. I didnt start dating until 3 years after my last relationship. If your afraid of getting hurt, then your just not ready. Sometimes it takes years to really get over someone.

I personally think if you care that much about him then yes..you did love him.you can love anybody at any age. but if he just ended it without warning he really isnt worth it. but I know how hard it is. I've been in that situation before. and the truth is you never honestly get over anyone.but it doesnt hurt to try.and I know its pretty much impossable when you go past all the places you guys been togther and stuff but you were too good for him. there was obviously something wrong if he just ended it and that was he knew your were too good for him. and he was scared. your still young and you have so much life to live. live each day as if it were your last and dont wait up for anybody.he will soon realize he made a mistake.but what I do is I set rules for my self. I tell myself im over him and I stick to it. know matter what.and I know it hurts but the pain will go away.and soon your going to be like pshh.I cant believe I wasted so much time on him. trust me on this one. there will be somebody better out there. no worries.

-sophie(: