Can i be pregnant?

Hi... Im scared to death!
My period is due in 1-2 days and panic is almost unbearlilbe. I dont know how to explein properly what happened. When my boyfriend came to uk to visit me, that first night together( june 7th) I noticed something that is reallyyy...

worrying me. We didnt have sex nor we did it before he went back home (june 25th).
We were laying in spoon position, my back to his chest with our underwear on and he was kissing me, cuddling...things people do without having sex act. and sfter like 1 hour or so I went to bathroom and when I sit on toilet I saw something slimy and gooey on the top of my boxers (ok, girls boxers). But then, I saw it on the leg of the pants as well. I wiped it it off immedietly and waited for about 30min. To check if everything is completly dry (it was 30-something c here in serbia) .
He said he didnt come and wasnt even close to orgasm (he is speaking truth, he wasnt hard almost at all when we were in bed). So I really, really dont know what to think...could it be my cum and im stressing with no reason at all?? 4 days after I had my period (lasten regular 6 days) but im still im sooo scared, never was so scared in my life! im 19btw

Whoa, sister. Take a few deep breaths and relax. First off, it's *extremely* unlikely that you could get pregnant from anything that you described. Remember, even with full sexual intercourse with the man ejaculating inside during a woman's most fertile period, the odds are still stacked against pregnancy (though not by much). If you didn't have sex, even if he HAD orgasmed all over your legs, the chances that you could get pregnant from that are minuscule.

What you're describing sounds like precum, a discharge from the penis during arousal. It's there to aid in lubrication during sex and contains little if any sperm. If he were snuggled up behind his girlfriend, he was probably aroused (especially if you two aren't having sex), and got a little precum on your clothing.

Yeah thats what I was thinking too...but its always nice to hear someone else say it. I mean, my period should be in couple hours or 2morrow morning if everything is regular, but I dont have prober 28 days cycle always. I have champs in my abdomen/ lower stomach, I feel a litrtle more irritated with everything...just like PMS before. Maybe im this scared because this is my 1st period when something could heppen. I dont have any signs of pregnany, sore/ swollen breasts, craving for some foor, im not sleepy or tired more then before, no headaches or nausea (in morning, nigh, whatever).
Thank you so much for your answer and I hope this scare is going to go away soon

Just wait until you ARE having sex and you have the "I think I came in you" scare. I lost a lot of sleep when I was 15 over that one. Glad you're feeling better, though. Let me know how it turns out.

I must ask u, are you guy or a girl? Please dont take this as offend, im just kinda confused with your stetament above ('I think I came in u' and you was worryed) and in your profile it says that your guy. Sorry for this question...

And one important think, I have one disability (with walking, with my balac center) and it has nerve origin so being pregnant for me probably means...well I dont know, I cant do that. I have many things I cant do alone and I sure cant do them easyer with a baby it my belly or out of it. So this is major scare, like what to do if I am because im not like other persons who is 100% healthy and all.

Are you familiar with what happens during sex?
if you had your period than your not pregnant.
and the whole "I think I came in you" statement just means they had someone cum in them and they had a pregnancy scare.

but if you guys didnt have intercourse then it is impossible for you to be pregnant.it was probubly just cum on your boxerss..nuthing abnormal.

Lyssaloo, you''re under a couple of misconceptions. First, it's very possible to continue to have regular periods and still be pregnant. It's even possible to carry the baby entirely to term and never know you were pregnant until you give birth (it happened last year in Oregon in a McDonald's restroom, as a matter of fact).

Second, it is possible to become pregnant without intercourse, just unlikely. Impossible and unlikely shouldn't be confused.

Jasna88, I am indeed male, but when I was a teenager, I had a few freak-out moments where my girlfriend and I thought she might have gotten pregnant.

Hey Mike, so what happened with your girl? Was her period late?

ps. I still dont have mine so im late about 20hours now, but last night period pain was...ofcours worse then during the day.

your definitely not pregnant. Your period is probably late because of stress. This is something that you shouldnt be stressing over anyway. I feel that you should look into sex ed and read up on it. If you freak out about things like that, then you need to read up on sex and maybe talk to your doctor for quick answers. You should also consider not doing anything with contact if thats how your going to act.