What if my crush only likes me as a friend?

Asked by crazycuttie9821 about 1 year ago, 4 answers.

what should I do ...I really like this kid but he only considers me as a best friend I like him for 2 years now dont you think thats a lot ?!? AND IM SO UGLY

Answered by rdtallboy25 on Nov 15, 2007, 05:50PM
| 98 answers.

Well one thing that I noticed right off the bat, is that you said "AND I'M SO UGLY."
You can't have that attitude if you want to get this boy.
Now, you never know. Maybe this boy does have secret feelings for you.
Maybe you just have to bring it up to him, because maybe he has never thought about you like that before. Maybe those "feelings" will come out if he does think about it.
I am kinda in the same boat that you are right now. I have liked this girl for a long time. And I know that you said that 2 years is a long time. lol but I have liked this girl for about 4 years now and it's hard because she doesnt live the closest to me.
but...
Anyway. Hey. You sound like a really great girl, and you sound like you really like this boy, and I really want to help you out so "Fun Mail Me" or contact me on AIM or MSN is you have any of those.
Just "FUN MAIL ME" and I'll give you my screen name. or we could talk through fun mail or sumthin'
lol I just think we are kind of in the same boat right now, and we can help eachother settle eachother's problems lol...so let me know!
-Ryan

Answered by msmaliah on Nov 15, 2007, 06:05PM
| 26 answers.

I am sure you are not as ugly as you think you are. Great relationships start with great friendships first. You never really know what he could be thinking. If anything is meant to be, it will happen. Keep up a positive attitude and show him what a great friend you can be, and maybe he will see what a fabulous girlfriend you would make.

Answered by 4987627602 on Nov 15, 2007, 06:35PM
| 30 answers.

WOW you sound JUST LIKE ME! how strange is that

Answered by angelfire2708 on Nov 15, 2007, 07:06PM
| 5942 answers.

Since he has made his feelings for you clear, namely that he wants to be friends, you really only have one choice. You have to honor his feelings and wishes. You do however have options as to exactly how you handle the "friendship situation". You can swallow your feelings, move on and work on having "just a friendship" with this guy or, you can harbor your feelings and hope that the future will see your friendship turn romantic. Either way, the one thing you should do is actively take him up on his offer of friendship in spite of your deeper feelings.

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