Boyfriend wants to run away he feels like he is the cause of all problems

my boyfriend is 19 im 14 bout to be 15 . and he told me he was tierd of his mom and grandma always in his buisness, irritating him, and he thinks its better if he ran away tonight. and quit school and live on the streets . he also believes that he is...

causing too many problems within the family. [the mom the grandma and my boyfriend do not get along] I tried to stop him but it isnt working. im scared to wake up one morning wondering where he slept that night .. what should I tell him to make him stay ? or make him feel better ?

tell him that that is crazy and that it is not worth having to live on the streets!!

Sounds kinda like my situation, my grandma calls the shots, when my mom is mad at me she makes one call to grandma and she knows ill comply regardless, my grandparents have always been there for me, they pretty much paid to take care of me.
I hated the fact that they controlled every aspect of my life. So one day I simply stopped listening, now they understand I want to make my own decisions so they let me, throwing in advice along the way, the only reason I'm happy now is I found the girl of my dreams and she changed my mind completely about disappearing, without her I would probably still be planning my way out, now all I want is to stay, go to college as planned and get us a house to live in and grow old with her, without her I would still be the faded version of myself.

All I can say is tell him to try and deal with it, things ALWAYS get better. I know this was more of a story than advice, but its the best I could do.

Hope I helped!
-Les

Tell your boyfriend that just because he decides to live on the streets, doesn't mean his problems will go away. In fact, he will have much more problems - not having a warm place to sleep at night, begging for money and food. Tell him to get a good job first, then move out because then at least he can get married and have a GOOD life instead of living on the streets and going nowhere. Tell him that you care about him and you will be there to talk to him whenever he's feeling stressed in his home. But tell him that running away from his problems doesn't solve them!

wow this is just like my problem
me + my boyfriend have been going out for
a year + 6 months (my longest relationship)
immm 16 in november + he is 18 in august
+ my mum + well mostly my big sister are very controlling
they tell me when I can go + see him + how long for
but he is only aloud up to stay on a satarday
+ I go down to his bit on a tuesday
which is crap considering weve been going out so long +
are realy in love
I feel like running away but I know that wouldent help it would
only make things worse for both of us
but as soon as immm 16 imm puting in for my own house
+ my boyfriend put in for his own house months ago so
hopefully he will get a house just after im 16
then we can do what we want without any interferiance (:
just tell him that if he does that will just make things wors +
its just going to couse you problems to

chelle x