What's the best way to tell him I'm ready for sex?

im inthe purple dress Asked by badgirlrach 11 months ago, 9 answers.

im15 and my boyfriend is 18 and is really nice and has sed he will w8 til I want to have s3x with him but I want to now whats the best way to tell him im ready / turm him on really seductivly

Answered by shadows2weaves20 on Dec 26, 2007, 10:42AM
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true love waits do you care enough about him to say hey ill wait because I dont want you to go to jail possibly think bout it

Answered by angelfire2708 on Dec 26, 2007, 11:01AM
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Your 15, hes 18. Hes an adult. He can get in trouble for statutory rape of a minor! A 15 yr old girl does not need to seduce her 18 yr old boyfriend. If you want respect, then save yourself for someone you are planning on spending the rest of your life with. If you have to focus on being sexual with him, then your relationship isnt going to survive.

Bad Reasons for sex too soon:
· A need for sex.
· You want the person to love you.
· Social pressure to perform.
· Nothing more to talk about.
· Boredom.
· A curiosity to find out if there's any chemistry.
· You want to make someone else jealous.
· To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner.
· You're challenging a dare.
· An attempt to solidify the relationship.

It's not uncommon for a girl to have sex in order to make a guy like her more, or to encourage him to stay with her. She may compromise her standards because she's afraid of never being loved. Once he leaves her, though, an emotional divorce takes place. A person's heart is not made to be that close to a person, and then separated. Since teenage sexual relationships rarely last, the girl's sense of self-worth is often damaged. Also, she sometimes concludes that if she looked better, he would have stayed longer.

Stages in a healthy relationship look like this
Attraction toward one another
Friendship
Dating
Taking things slowly
Getting to really know one another's likes and dislikes, values and value systems
Getting to know each other’s friends and family
Getting to know each other’s interests.
Do you have enough in common by now to see if the relationship grows further?

If so, continue to take things slowly:

No sex! Remember, having sex with dating partners is not practicing for marriage, it is practicing for divorce.
Enjoy minimal physical touches: hand-holding, light kissing, arms around each other, hugs, looking into each others eyes. Enjoy the chemistry without the sex.
Have you had any fights yet? Even when disagreeing, each should remain respectful of the other person.
Have you discovered each other’s faults? Can you live with them? In other words, are you able to accept the other person, faults and all without trying to change one another?
Have you found out whether or not each of you has the same values upon which to grow your relationship? Do you have similar goals in life, similar objectives?
Do you find yourself growing together more, or are you finding too many differences in your lives to really make a relationship strong and secure? Break ups do not have to be devastating if/when you discover together that you do not have enough in common to make a commitment work.
Do you have a spiritual bond with each other—do you have a similar faith background to see you through the rough times as well as the good times?
^All of the above will give you a good foundation for a lasting relationship.^

Premarital sex does not prove your love for anyone. In fact, it can be devastating, especially for the girl when the relationship ends! You need to think long and hard on something that will affect you for the rest of your life!

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Answered by funadvice on Dec 26, 2007, 04:24PM
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You are a jailbait. :S Don't do it.

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Answered by stephanief987 on Dec 27, 2007, 12:55AM
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Hes really nice so you decided you will have sex with him.
Girl, you are way over your head.

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Answered by clara on Dec 27, 2007, 02:28AM
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you are too young!!! 14 and he is 18 OMG wats wrong with think twice and learn to take advice from people like angelfire!!! dont do it!!! wait for the right time am sure you dont wont to be like jamie SPEARS?!!!

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Answered by bubux007 on Dec 27, 2007, 05:56AM
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If you are really ready for it you may simply tell it. You konw, making sex is a state when you do not feel shame, shyness or else. Then you show everything, touch everything, and tell everything.

Answered by superfresh on Dec 27, 2007, 01:09PM
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umm yea, how about NOT! because letz see here. I think not! because.. umm yea, you're like negative ten years OLD. the real question here is.. how do you tell him your ready to have children? like seriously.. umm yea, you will get preggy, and die. but first your parents will destroy you. think about it.. really think about it. :] and PLUS. that is illegal if anyone finds out. JUST LETTING YOU KNOW. :] JAILBATE.

Answered by badgirlrach on Dec 29, 2007, 12:29PM
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to all you people hu put im jailbait for starters im not im 16 tmz
for people hu say im just doin it for the sake of doin it im not
for people hu dont think we are in a lovin relationship we have been together for 4 years so any 1 hu thinks that I am stupid then your wrong I no he loves me and I love him and we no wats involved I juswant to thnk anyone hu actually gave proper advice

Answered by funadvice on Jan 01, 2008, 03:36PM
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well I for one think as long as he wears a sondom your ok as long as you want to??!!! if that helps!! you cna email me for other questions!!

also about the telling him part!!...
when your hanging out get a lil touchy or something you can whisper in his ear and say I think im ready to have s*x or like I am ready to have it
AS LONG AS HE WEARS A CONDOM!!!
EMIAL ME WE SHOUD talk!!!LOLOLOLOLOLOL

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