Bad boyfriend?

okay so I've been with this guy for 8 months, and hes really nice when its just us..but hes REALLLY overprotective. he recently deleted every guy out of my phone but he doesnt "trust me", even though he cheated on me, and then he smoked with friends in...

front of me, when months before he told me he quit because of me. he lies, he ditches me, and I never feel important enough. but I cant help but love him, we used to be bestfriends, and I just want it to be like it was in the beginning.. you know? I know I sound pathetic, but I just dont know what to do anymore. I know I have to leave, and I want to leave, but part of me doesnt want to lose my bestfriend and my boyfriend of 8 months. any advice?

8 months is nothing... and he's a prick... dump him.

talk to him about how you feel, and that you want to just be best friends again because you already see the relationship ruining that. Tell him you your trustworthy and that if he cant accept that and still has to tell you how to run your life and who to talk to then he cant respect the love he has for you. If I were you I would break up with him, but do it in the kindest possible way you can so you can remain friends. Of course you love him he's your bestfriend and boyfriend of 8 months...but wouldnt you prefer being with someone who can trust you and make all your dreams come true? think of what the future has in store for you without him stopping you or being iin your way. GoodLuck.

your not pathetic.. if he was really your bestfriendd and a good boyfriendd he wouldn't be treating you this way. I understand what its like to have a guy be overprotective and trust me thats reallly bad.Its just going to get worse.. if I were you I would dump him but if you really feel like you love him then explain your point of view to him...

GoodLuck =]

When a guy is this controlling it's usually a bad thing. You really should go find somebody who deserves you, and will let you be yourself.

honestyl...dump him now before things get too crazy to end. If you guys are ment to be together with time you will...but you two clearly need a break