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Is it stupid to want a baby when I'm 15?

Asked by milly101 about 1 year ago, 33 answers.

I REALLY want A BABY and IM 15 IS THIS STUPID MY mate SED DER WAS SOMETHING MISSIN IN ME LIFE IS SHE RTE

Answered by official0817 on Nov 12, 2007, 03:32PM

hell ya theres something wrong im 20 and just had one it ant easy

Answered by amblessed on Nov 12, 2007, 05:20PM
| 8544 answers.

At your age what you should really want (and need by your spelling) is a Good education, where you'll be able to have a bright future - Best Plan: education, ring, date, marriage, then baby...I hope you make Good choices in your life !!

Answered by bimjob on Nov 12, 2007, 07:38PM
| 1916 answers.

It's not uncommon to want one, but you will need to have an education and a way to support a baby without just leaving it up to your parents. Raising children is hard, tiring, and time consuming. By far it's best to have two parents in a loving stable relationship. Early to mid twenties.

I would suggest a puppy from the local ASPCA or pound. A puppy will give you unconditional love and you will gain a sense of responsibility that you will use as you raise your own family.

Good Luck !

Answered by dietarygirl on Nov 12, 2007, 08:06PM
| 14 answers.

Children always want babies because they are so cute and cuddly, but they don't think things all the way through. I am a mother of 2 at age 26. I had my first at 17 and the second at 26, and it is very hard.

I love my children to death, but if I could do it all over again I would wait. Chances are you are still in school, living at home, and no job. I would suggest becoming more independent before taking on this much responsibility.

Having children = very expensive, very little free time, major responsibilities.

Hope you really think things through first.

GOOD LUCK, and GOD BLESS!

Answered by aarthur001 on Nov 12, 2007, 08:39PM
| 197 answers.

Wanting a baby is perfectly natural; it's one of the things that has kept the species alive. Baby's are a real blessing, but there are some things you should really consider.

If you have a baby, you will be responsible for that child's well-being every day for the next 18 years, and to some extent, the rest of your life. Between childcare, medical bills, food, and transportation, he/she will cost a ridiculous amount of money.

A mothers love is one of the most powerful things on the planet, but realize that it means a lot of suffering too. Do yourself a favor and find a job where you learn what a dollar is really worth, and what suffering might mean.

Good luck! I'll be praying for you!

Answered by inaejasia_marie on Nov 12, 2007, 09:27PM
| 38 answers.

no its not stupid..its normal fa girls that age to want a baby, because they want somebody to love them..get a pet =)

Answered by funadvice on Nov 12, 2007, 10:10PM
| 42412 answers.

'I dont know what is wrong with you young girls out here today but babies arent purses. just because you see all the other girls with one now you want one.' -- sgt_harris

Answered by kozueworldz on Nov 13, 2007, 02:04AM
| 467 answers.

You are not stupid.Maybe it just because you like a babies?But there is something you need to know.Having a baby you need the money to support them,wake up in the middle of the night to feed them and if they dont want to sleep,you also cant sleep cause you wont know what the baby going to do next.If you really want to be a good father,plan your future then.Study hard,get a good job,then get a baby when you are ready.
good luck to you. ^^

Answered by kozueworldz on Nov 13, 2007, 02:04AM
| 467 answers.

You are not stupid.Maybe it just because you like a babies?But there is something you need to know.Having a baby you need the money to support them,wake up in the middle of the night to feed them and if they dont want to sleep,you also cant sleep cause you wont know what the baby going to do next.If you really want to be a good father,plan your future then.Study hard,get a good job,then get a baby when you are ready.
good luck to you. ^^

Answered by itbeyomomma on Nov 13, 2007, 07:02AM
| 17 answers.

Bam B***!
What the hell are you thinking?
Giving birth at that age could kill you!
Either way, you will probably get disowned.
You have been virtually B***slapped.

Answered by funadvice on Nov 15, 2007, 12:06PM
| 42412 answers.

no its not stupid I am 13 and I want a kid but only because I want to have sex and know what it feels like

Answered by underwaterophelia on Nov 15, 2007, 07:57PM
| 1434 answers.
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It's not stupid to want a baby at your age.

It is stupid (and irresponsible) to have one.

Answered by scummins08 on Nov 16, 2007, 08:32AM

I dont think that you are stupid for wnating a baby at 15. It should show you that you are lacking somthing in your life where you would need to have a baby. I am 17 and I am wanting and trying to have a baby. so no I dont think its stupid. I got pregnant at 15. I had an abortion and I wish I never did. so my answer is no.

Answered by harmony on Nov 17, 2007, 12:45PM
| 233 answers.

chill out. kids are a BIG headach. NO lie. and your too young. you can wait. just try. plus do you even know who you want to have it by? hm. hope this helps.

Answered by 0_koole123 on Nov 18, 2007, 03:57PM
| 59 answers.

babysit more and I did and I now dont want a baby

Answered by sousagal76 on Nov 23, 2007, 08:29PM
| 222 answers.

No, it isn't stupid to want a baby. It isn't even stupid necessarily to have one at that age, but it would be a HUGE deal! It probably has something to do with wanting to grow up and have the ideal life you see, but don't have a baby before you've even gone through high school! Save that for later when you have a husband and a stable home for the child to grow up in. High school pregnancies may turn out just fine, but your life will never be the same.

Answered by shyme on Nov 27, 2007, 03:28AM
| 24 answers.

I think you are mad myself as I had a baby at 17 I got no life it feels like your in prison believe you me I know

Answered by melissa_jane2k on Nov 27, 2007, 06:53AM

ARE YOU MADDD

Answered by shyme on Nov 27, 2007, 07:00AM
| 24 answers.

not really just think its daft an its not a baby thats missing but if you want to go an rune your life you go ahead but just reamber I told you so just think when your older an your m8ts ask you to go to town an you cant can you cause youll have rasposibiltys wont you well im just saying thats all dont go down that road im there already!!!

Answered by mizzsmith on Nov 27, 2007, 07:10AM
| 41 answers.

if you want a baby its going to be your responsibility but I think that your to young wait a little while if someone says theres something missing in your life dont jump to getting pregnant

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